Is it normal to ask? was i wrong in asking?

My bf recently started college and I hardly get to speak to him these days since we live in different time zones. The call rates are expensive and hence we use messenger to stay in touch. My bf comes across as a completely lovable and caring one but his behaviour is so unpredictable. He is extremely rude and disrespectful at times. I happened to speak to him today and casually asked him about his assignment and he snapped at me saying that it was none of my business. I was really taken aback and when i questioned his behaviour he said he had a roommate and he did not want to discuss his assignment in his presence. when i told him that he could have worded it differently he said he had work to do and hung up. I tried to call him like crazy after that but he disconnected my calls and then switched off his phone. I feel like im being treated like a doormat. Is this a redflag or am I jus too emotional?

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  • joybird

    Dump this waster!

    You are too kind and caring for him.
    Personally I wouldn't have cared if he'd set fire to his assignment. Don't take this abuse - or it's all he's ever going to dish out!!

    Find someone better and closer to home too.

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  • Katywompus

    Ya, I would break up with this dude

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  • howinsane!

    thank you all.. well! i am a bit hard on my myself at times..
    as u guys mentioned .. the answer is pretty clear.. probably i jus want to keep excusing this person so i dont lose him.. i know that sounds weird.. but iv realized that its now time to say a goodbye..

    @Dad.. you sound so much like a "Dad"..thanks :)

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  • lc1988

    That doesn't make any sense. Why not talk about an assignment when a "roommate" is present? First year of college is an interesting time of life..it's probably time to go your separate ways.

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  • Dad

    Why do girls want to disrespect themselves like this.
    Lose this BF, he's obviously not the one.

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  • BfingIToucher

    I think you already know your answer. Why would you want to be with someone who makes you feel this way?

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    • STFU23

      yup, I agree. especially since it is a long distance relationship

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