Is it normal to ask him to talk dirty?

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New bf feels uncomfortable when I ask him to talk dirty to me. Surely it's okay to ask him to do this? I like to get verbal during the act - ask him to tell me what he wants to do or wants me to do. He gets weirded out which is a turn off for me. Is it not normal?!?!

All the time - talk filth 16
No never - it's offensive 2
Only sometimes 6
It depends on... 7
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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    Wait. Are the options for you to do or things to tell him?

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    • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
      8 years ago

      Both I guess. However we can get some dirty talk into the bedroom - any option is worth considering right now.

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      • Statsmashers
        8 years ago

        Give us examples

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        • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
          8 years ago

          You know exactly what I am talking about you just want to be punished lol :)

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  • GrayHulk99
    8 years ago

    maybe he doesnt want to scare you away.

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    • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
      8 years ago

      Really?! Hmmm that hadn't occurred to me. If he's too scared to even try that's eventually going to be a problem.

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