Is it normal to ask a girl to be friends

i saw this girl at a coffee joint a few times and think we shared a moment..... after a few months saw her again and felt the same again...got to know her name through one of my friends....searched for her on f.b and asked her if she wanted to be friends....though she hasnt replied back.....does she think im a freak ????

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  • Troll

    Freak. Who would want to be friends with someone they net at a coffee "joint". Obviously not knowing what a joint is.

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  • cornholio

    @cess thanks for your input...doesnt matter any more...she has a b.f, thats y i think she didnt reply

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  • cess

    And oh it would have been much better to talk to her not through the internet first. She may think about how you got to know her name! First you should have just simply talked to her.

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  • cess

    Maybe she didn't recognise you. Maybe you're not the only one with who she had ever 'shared a moment'. She may not like you. Or maybe she already has a bf and just sees what comes after your 'be friends'. So many options.

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  • Ravenswood

    Maybe she hasn't logged on and seen your friend's request, yet. Some people actually DON'T sign into Facebook twelve times a day... that's the truly abnormal thing.

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    • cornholio

      yea... maybe she hasnt checked her fb/email account...but its been almost a month since i asked her.... people do check their fb/email atleast once a month.... i think shes ignoring me....or shes being a snob

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  • 789654123

    it would have been fine if you had just added her, if you were pushy about being friends and actually asked her to be your friend it is creepy.

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    • cornholio

      i was just trying to be polite !!!! now is being polite creepy or what ????

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  • hotchickie81

    I don't see it being a big deal. As long as you're not some kind of creepy stalker.

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    • cornholio

      yea... even i thought its not such a bigg deal, i'm just asking her if she wants to be friends... but she hasnt replied yet... what do you think of it ??? maybe she's a creep ;)

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