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I'm always attracted to women who are down on their luck/life. As if, I need to come and save the day. Whenever a woman shares something that's going wrong in thier life, I feel the need to be a confidant, mentor, or shoulder to cry on.
is it normal to always be attracted to broken women?
you can be supportive and there for them but you can never fix them, thats their job
That sounds a lot like a bit of codependency on your part. I would say that this is very common, probably not normal, or always healthy, but still quite common.
The thing about people is that you can't fix them, or force them to change who they are. People have to work on themselves, and make a conscious decision to do so. Not even God can change these people if they don't want to change themselves. We all have freewill to choose for ourselves what we want to work on about ourselves.
If you want to fix something then your best bet is to buy an old car, or motorcycle, and fix that.
You sound like a good person :) be careful though because one time I dated a girl with depression and when I broke up with her she almost committed suicide... luckily I talked her through it but yeah... Just be careful.