Is it normal to always be single?

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I'm eighteen and I've been single my whole life. I've never been on a date (even to school dances) and I've never kissed a guy. I am genuinely pretty, but I'm kind of shy I guess. Will this go away soon because I'm not getting anywhere with anyone?

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  • elf_ears
    6 years ago

    I know it doesn't feel like it but you are still very young and there are plenty of people your age and older who have never kissed someone else. Despite what the media tries to tell us, being in a relationship isn't the most important thing in life. Just do what you enjoy doing and wait for the right person to come along. There's no rush.

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  • bob7
    6 years ago

    wow a shy girl and thinks she is pretty , first time for me

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  • Whatkatedid
    6 years ago

    Just keep making friends and you will find the right person. You sound nice enough so it will happen.

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  • Dustyair
    6 years ago

    Get an EDUCATION first, everything else will roll in after that.

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  • Chua
    6 years ago

    I am 17, I haven't kiss a girl yet and don't even talk to girls cause I shy.

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  • justme31756
    6 years ago

    Get an EDUCATION first, everything else will roll in after that.VERY TRUE...STATMENT...
    Dustyair

    listen be smart and have a good job making good money....

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  • Emokate
    6 years ago

    I have never been kissed either. At this point I am willing to be with anyone so I am trying to be with a girl maybe.

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  • Pumpurrnickel
    6 years ago

    18 is still very young. You don't need to be worried, it's normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    Are you still in school and do you participate in social stuff there? Don’t you have friends that can spread the word or introduce you to ppl?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      I am still in school but my school isn't a great place to meet guys. All the ones I could ever imagine dating have girlfriends, and my friends who have tried to help recommend guys that even they say they couldn't see me dating. It all feels useless

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      • [Old Memory]
        6 years ago

        Can you get a job with ppl your own age where you’d also meet customers your age? I met my first serious gf at my friends workplace - and I was 18 btw and wasn’t actually looking for a gf. We went out as a group and we hit it off and I asked her out after a few group get togethers. It was all a chance thing, you’ll get your chance when you least expect it. I went to a big high school and she was in the same school (same grade too) we never met until I went to my friends workplace. My point is you’ll get your chance too so don’t give up, it may happen when you least expect it, and you have plenty of time.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          Yeah I'll try this. At my old job a couple of guys did like me. They were VERY weird, but if I can get a job with more normal people then that would totally work! Thanks :)

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  • Charles2231
    6 years ago

    If you like light skin guys I can fix your problem

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  • Ellenna
    6 years ago

    Settle down: your "whole life" is only 18 years and at what age do you think you should've been non-single?

    Focus on friendships and stop being so desperate about a relationship: that's very likely to come across to others and scare them off

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