Is it normal to always be an outcast

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I have recently been convinced I am a social outcast. I was friends with someone at work for a few years but as soon as someone new started they became friends and cut me out.

My family disowned me with no explination. I haven't seen or spoken to them in a year.

Every time I am introduced to someone new they politely say hi then ignore me. I have no friends, no boyfriend and no one in my life.

I am never part of the in crowd, even on the internet. People just naturally hate me. It doesn't matter if I am nice, just act myself, try to be funny, try to be aloof. Nothing works. I have only ever really had friends as part of a group and was never really anyone's true friend, just tolerated as a part of the group.

Is it normal for some people to just be an outcast social leper or does everyone feel this way and no one really ever feels accepted?

Everyone feels this way 2
People hate you 1
Other (explain) 2
You are a loser outcast 0
You've just had bad luck 2
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  • Anonymous Post Author
    4 years ago

    Well since only 2 people responded I guess it's confirmed that I am hated and worthless. Not really much of a suprise.

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    Do you have a neurological condition that makes it hard for you is understand body language, and facial expressions by any chance?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      No I don't have any abnormal conditions or anything like that.

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      • RoseIsabella
        4 years ago

        Hmm... that's interesting, because you talk about yourself as if you are cursed, or something.

        What do most people say to you?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          I don't know about being cursed it is just my experience.

          People basically say the bare minimum to me and just ignore me the rest of the time. If I try to push myself and interact I usually end up in trouble in some way.

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          • RoseIsabella
            4 years ago

            Hmm... in what ways do you try to push yourself to interact with people?

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              4 years ago

              I don't know, just being friendly, non judgemental, going with the flow, being willing to try things, asking people about themselves.

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  • Nikclaire
    4 years ago

    You are being way too hard on yourself. I am pretty sure everyone feels this way to a certain extent. Just be yourself.

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