Is it normal to always always always think about sex (when you are over 40)
I am a 41 year old man. I am married. I have an almost non-existent sex life. That is sex with my wife. I have been having an affair (this relationship and the last two relationships) with my hand and my mind for the last 20 years. I think sex all the time. I think and dream of newer ways to have orgasms. I would love to have a stable of willing women with whom I could experiment with to see what works best. This can not be normal!!