Is it normal this lost me a girlfriend?

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So I had a girl, and I lost her over something I thought was pretty dumb. Do you agree? Heres what happened.

We met at my work and were like 3 or 4 dates in one night at work a male coworker of mine made a joke about masterbating while my gf was in the room. She seem surprised and grossed out and next time I say her she asked me if I masterbated. We hadn't had sex yet at this point and so of course I still did, usually thinking of her actually. So I said I did, and so does about every other guy. She got grossed out and when she questioned me further and found out I liked porn, she was livid. She said she was through with me and wanted to wait for a guy who saves his pleasure for with her. I told her that wasn't smart because If she ever finds a guy who claims to never masterbate or watch porn, she should leave him instantly because he is a liar. That was the last thing I said to her.

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[Old Memory]

4 years ago

What rock you find her under?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  Work.
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    4 years ago
    
    Shit dude, I didn't know you were an archaeologist.
    
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    - megadriver
      
      4 years ago
      
      Good one XD
      
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megadriver

4 years ago

Dude, did you find this chick in amish country in 1825? XD
Waiting for the right pure man (virgin) to devote himself to pleasuring her...

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  Nope. She was from work.
  
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  - megadriver
    
    4 years ago
    
    Either way, it's her fault. I bet she also watches porn, but says this to appear pure and more dignified than the rest of the porn watching folk.
    
    Just ignore her and do tell your friend not to make stupid jokes. If I was trying to score a chick and a friend made me look bad, I would look even worse as I give them a medium punch right on the spot and call them out on my bullshit. Friends gotta have your back, not throw you in the mud.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      I dunno if she watches porn, I don't think nearly as many women do and if anyone doesn't, it would be her. My friends joke was funny, and totally called for. It wasn't unlike many many jokes I've made back there anyways. It was more unlucky than anything.
      
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einexile

4 years ago

Unless she'd made it clear she intended to remain chaste until marriage, in this day and age sexually active people expect to have sex with a new partner fairly soon after they begin dating. So it sounds like the real question was: Why aren't you putting a little more effort into getting me out of my clothes? And the real answer is you begin the evening feeling sexually satisfied because you use porn even when you're in a brand new relationship. Next time try not doing that.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  That seems possible, however I suspect she was against pre marital sex morally. Probably should have figured that part out by then I guess.
  
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  - einexile
    
    4 years ago
    
    If she's against premarital sex then it's insane for her to expect you not to masturbate. If she's against porn that's fine but this is something she should have signaled early on so you could later answer that you used to but have since stopped. In any case this isn't something you break up over if you actually care about the person. Impossible to be in a couple with someone who can't stay calm and talk it through when one of you has a bad habit or has hurt the other.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      Its not me choosing to break up.
      
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      - einexile
        
        4 years ago
        
        I'm saying there is no way for you or any other sensible person to have a relationship with someone who brings out the nuclear option over a wrongdoing as theoretical and highly debated as porn. If she's going to lose her shit over something that doesn't affect her at all, imagine how she would act when you forget to pay a bill, or heaven forbid stop by the bar on your way home.
        
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TerriAngel

4 years ago

Uncompatable, is uncompatable.
Dont lose sleep over it.
Bet she thinks Oral is perverted also.

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GaelicPotato

4 years ago

Hilarious.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  Why mate? Why you laughing at my expense? Be honest, was it her problem or mine?
  
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  - Cuntsiclestick
    
    4 years ago
    
    It was her problem. Masturbation and porn is completely normal. I wouldn't date a guy that says I cant masturbate/watch porn. They have no right to control anything I do in private.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      Amen to that. Unless it interferes with you guys having sex
      
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  - GaelicPotato
    
    4 years ago
    
    Youre clearly not compatible, just move on.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      I noticed, the question here is will she ever find anyone with this high of standards for purity?
      
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      - GaelicPotato
        
        4 years ago
        
        She will.
        
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