Is it normal this girl randomly stopped talking to me?

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Basically there was this girl (when wasn't there?)
She became single, she works at my hairdressers, my hairdresser said she could use some company asked if I liked her, I said yeah shes really pretty and funny etc. They told her and this girl added me on Facebook, I'll call her Lorraine to make it easier. She recently broke up with her boyfriend, presumably because hes an idiot, exactly how I used to be until I felt like being nice to people.
But yeah we got chatting, she asked me out, yep. A beautiful, funny girl surprisingly asked ME, a stupid lad out. She was really forward, fun to talk to, polite, funny and charming and she got my most stupid unfunny jokes, people say I'm funny but I treaded the water telling her something stupid to see what she said, went well. We were speaking backwards and forwards for ages I played the gentlemen part right I think, giving her compliments telling her how beautiful and funny she is and how she made my day and that stuff.

She seemed keen I asked a few other girls and boys about how she seemed to act with me, they said she was dead keen, calling me cutie and sweet and lovely and all that stuff.
But one day she just stopped talking to me. She wanted to meet up, kept delaying it saying she was ill, done that kylie jenner challenge or whatever and said she was too embarrassed to see me. She thought she was ugly and I kept telling her how pretty she was to try to make her feel better, then one day. BAM! nothing, doesn't reply, look at my message or anything, just forgets I exist. It's not like I said anything I asked tons of people they said I done the right thing, I'm giving her, her space and just not advancing it assuming its something I said and done. I have a problem with anxiety, social anxiety and social situations and depression and suicidal tendancies, she doesn't know that but I just take it all upon myself that its my fault or she.. most probably found someone better.
Well its for the best, she can do waaay better than me anyway haha as long as shes happy thats all I care about, shes the nicest person I've spoken to.

But is it normal for a girl to just randomly stop speaking to someone they were seemingly interested in?

What did I do wrong?

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Based on 14 votes (8 yes)
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Comments ( 6 )
  • Freedom_
    8 years ago

    All I can say is....

    ♪I can see clearly now Lorraine is gone♫

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  • Nokiot9
    8 years ago

    U did nothing wrong. She got back with her old man. Better luck next time :/

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  • Skitzo1
    8 years ago

    Turns out that she just found another guy, lied to me and led me on. He's also in some sort of gang and has been to prison twice. Oh and he has no job and also beats women.

    Verdict? Be an asshole to get women. Simple. Can't believe I was actually nice haha.

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago

    Perhaps she got venereal disease and doesn't want to tell you.

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  • Aries
    8 years ago

    It sounds like she got back with her ex boyfriend or met someone new , I would suggest securing her attention and focus quicker next time . If you were talking for ages as you said without meeting up and going on dates , having experiences and making memories ... she may have got bored with it and moved on or the spark died down . I would say next time , take them out frequently to spend time and try to make something happen with her if you like her so no one is wasting each others time .

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    I would say talking to others about her, behind her back, would be plenty of reason to want nothing further to do with you. If you did that to me, that's how I would react.
    Next time, keep your own council.

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