Is it normal thati completely hate my appearance. my height, skin color, hair?

Hey I would love blue eyes and blonde hair -.- my eyes are very dark brown almost black so i don't evn know if people can see my pupils really. and my hair is also black. but i've accepted it. and im only 5'8

man you DO NOT have poor genetics, i have poor genetics... but at the end of the day I just accept who I am. I hope you'll find it in you to do the same.

of course you could always dye your hair, get a tan, and wear colour changing contacts, and trust me you ARE TALL. imo you shouldn't even be complainning but everyone has their own things they gotta deal with :)

You sound gorgeous!!!!! Seriously :) the best thing for you to do at the moment is to gain some confidence.......it'll make you even more appealing to girls. Trust me, not all girls love just the 'tall dark handsome' type

Sounds like low self-esteem.

I know how you feel, but you need to love yourself. Don't change yourself for others.
Not every girl is attracted to "Tall, dark, handsome". I'm not attracted to that. I like blonde hair and blue eyes and I know that they're other girls that are attracted to the same.

Love yourself/believe in yourself and I'm sure you'll find the girl for you.
Good Luck!

I love guys with blonde hair and blue eyes.

Wtf? You sound GORGEOUS. You're tall and have the traits of a Viking from Norway. Beautiful!

Classic first world problem. Your skin color or height will never change so just build that bridge and stop whining.

Get a tan and work out if it bothers you.

Your probably ugly.

Jk

dye your hair, use a tanning bed, colored contact lenses.

I'm so jealous! (even though i'm a girl) i think blonde hair, blue eyes, and pale skin is the most beautiful thing ever. (don't worry, i meant on guys.) easier for you to tan/dye your hair and such than it is for me to bleach everything (i'm perpetually tan/brown eyes/dark brown hair) trust me, being dark is a ton less fun.

and as for your eyes, I took a survey for a project, and 86% of people prefer blue eyes or light eyes over any color. =]

Um I'm 1000% sure if you lived in Texas you wouldn't be single for longer than oh I say 1 min! Blondes are very attractive! I'm a female but blonde hair, blue eyes and fair skin as well. :)

You want to be 6'4?! That's too tall! Girls aren't only attracted to that. Everyone has their preferences. I prefer guys who are not too tall but taller than me, Asians and White guys, foreign accents...slender (but not scrawny), hair and eyes don't matter much. I don't like tans either, as long as you look natural.

thankyou everybody for the posts :). i need to try and work on my confidence and self esteem issues.

just hope you get what you want in the next life

I have brown hair and brown eyes. I'm a guy by the way. I would like blonde hair and blue eyes. However, I've learned to love myself because there's alot of girls that actually love brown eyes and brown hair, and all. Same goes for you. No matter what there will ALWAYS be someone who will like your features.

You should use the fact that you stand out to your advantage. I think it's one of the reasons I'm so bad at remembering guys' names - they all look the bloody same!!

I like guys with blonde hair, plus you don't sound ugly anyway. Saying that all girls like "tall, dark and handsome" guys is very stereotypical. I'm sure that there is some girl out there that only like guys with blonde hair, blue eyes,and fair skin everyone has a type. Dude stop feeling sorry for yourself because I would kill for blue eyes.

A good body and a good body image have no connection with each other.

Even if you were to change how you look 3 MCR tickets (Yes!!) say you wouldn't feel any different.

Oh come on! Don't let those insecurities bring you down bro! Girls get attracted to men who aren't insecure of themselves. And those are just girls!! one day when you gain your self-confidence they'll be chasing after you! Just down feel down about what you got there.