Is it normal that your bestfriend wants you and her bf to hate eachother?

my bestfriend met her bf at a party we were both at. She had a different bf at the time that wasnt all that serious that she was planning on dumping but never did yet she ended up hooking up with her current bf at the party and they were together ever since. a healthy serious realtionship.

at the party though i got mad at him becuz i wanted him to apprecite her not cheating on her bf and do it the proper way so she doesnt get a bad rep, becuz shes not a shallow or immacure girl the guy she was with was a dead beat and she was planning on dumping him anyways they did it anyways and ever since me and her bf never got along.

i really started to resent him though when he made a comment about my how big my ass is. i thought it was uncalled for and disrespectful and ever since then he was trying to convince me hes a good guy but i judt couldnt stand him. my friend would tell me mean things he said like how im a bitch and ignorant becuz i dont know him and she would tell him when i said he was just like all thoses douche bags and stuff like that to her. she basically was feeding the fire.

she said how much it buged her that i didnt like her bf and he really wanted me to like him. i dont know or care why he cared so much aboyt what i thought of him becuz i didnt give aa two cents on how he thought about me. i think it was just his ego or something on how everyone expected to like him becuz hes like that anyways

i got drunk at this party one time and acually talked to her bf. he was sober but i gave him advice on his hockey career and just seeing how he handels things made me have another level of respect for him. so we were actually on good terms but ever since that my friend has been doing every thing she can to make me say someghing bad about her boyfriend. and ive been saying oh no hes a good guy i approve and stuff but its almost like she wants me to say something bad about him.
like if i say i hate the colo red shell be like thats my boyfriends favorite color or if i say i dont support druggies shell say my bf does that though (just random examples) . shell even say my bf does this you hate him right? like shell do whatever she can to make me saying something negative about him. this one time her message on her ipod popped up cuz i had her ipod and she broke her phone and i accedently clicked on it. and she said i said i think hes a ugly little emotional bitch and he replied that bitch i though she liked me now!

one day when we were talking she told me her bf is emotional and she said i know u think hes a baby but i said no i acually think its brave for a man to show his feelings. she totally lied about me :( . its not like i care wat he thinks of me i just dont wanna be none for that bitch who puts down others for no reason becuz thats not who i am. what really puzzled me is why would you lied to your bf about me? like why do u want him to hate me? it dosent make since... i never told her i seen it becuz that would be unconfrontable for the both of us

were like bestfriends so she knows i wouldnt never hit on her bf and plus i used to despise him so her thinking i have a crush on him is outta the question.. he also picked to talk to the party and not me so him liking me isnt a valid arguement either.. plus they are so lovey dovey and they been together for four months now and its very serious she tells me things he says to her and how she wants to marry him someday so theres no problem with their realtionship. shes never ever this shady and i dont understand why she would want us to hate eachother? theres no reason for it so my question is her behavior normal?