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After 28 years of marriage and in love with my wife of 28 years to want her and I to have extramarital sex
What does she want? you can't treat her like she is some toy or sex doll . If your wife want's to swing and so do you , have fun . If she doesn't , remove the post and carry on .
If she has talked to you about wanting an affair or threesome, she will probably do it with or without you. If you want to keep her, you might think real hard about what part you want to play in all of this. You can just let her do it or join in as an observer or as an active member in a threesome.
The options received will depend on the marriage and religious conception of each individual, aswell as their code of ethics. But if your looking for good advice, talk to couples who do engage on that sort of sexual activity. I never did it, so I'm not going to talk from inexperience.