Is it normal that you just really wanna go out w someone who likes you too?

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if this helps..
I'm a girl
I'm kinda on the younger side :)) oops
I've been liking this guy for almost a year now and I don't think he's ever gonna like me back... in the beginning I feel like we had this connection or a flirtationship atleast but now I'm sad cuz I don't think well ever be that way again. for some reason things were going really well, but then things changed and time moved on so we happened to spend much less time together and talk in general. then of course some people told him that I liked him and after that it was still really good but then after about a month or so it got really awkward... now adays were doing ok and were still friendly but I have to admit I feel bad that he feels awkward sometimes (this is all my thinking btw)

but there's this other kid who people tell me he likes me but tbh I'm not sure. I kinda have feelings for him too but Idrk.
any advice is just really helpful
thanks

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    The problem so many girls have in these cases is that they hold back and expect that the guys are going to initiate the attraction. Nowadays guys aren't initiating, which is fine, and girls need to initiate aswell, which is also good and should of been the case in the first place; mutual effort.

    In this case, you'll probably have to initiate to find out if he feels the same, and if he doesn't, simply move on and try get over him.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      how do I initiate?

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      • [Old Memory]
        9 years ago

        Make your attraction to them known.

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