Is it normal that whenever i make out with my boyfriend i wonder if i’m gay?

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i’ve been with this guy for a while now and he’s really sweet but when we try to get intimate i can never me turned on. i’ve had this problem before with exes as well. i wanted to have sex and i was ready but my body just didn’t respond to it. thinking about sex and masturbating is just fine but real sex with guys makes me question my sexuality. i can’t help but ask myself if i’m really gay and not really attracted to these guys

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  • LornaMae
    4 years ago

    The question is - are you attracted to girls?

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  • raisinbran
    4 years ago

    Lube.

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  • Mammal-lover
    4 years ago

    Tell your boyfriend it's the truth that you are confused and need to figure yourself out before you can commit with anyone. Then go try it with some girls and see evat happens

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    4 years ago

    Are you attracted to guys in general? You might just not be ready for it. Are you attracted to girls? If not then you might be asexual.

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    • d0esnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      "I wanted to have sex" -OP

      There's your answer, definently not asexual!

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      • JellyBeanBandit
        4 years ago

        Yeah but she might just want to have sex because she feels like that's the normal thing to do.

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        • d0esnormalmatter
          4 years ago

          It is and that's a very valid reason. It's still wanting sex.

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          • JellyBeanBandit
            4 years ago

            But she'd still be asexual then, it's just that she'd wish she wasn't.

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