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So whenever my wifeand I argue, it gets to a point where I can't follow anymore, and will do just about anything to make it stop - even admit to guilt that I have no idea about. I can't seem to win an argument.
It's not about winning or losing, it's about solving it. And you saying something to make her stop isn't going to help because if you guys argue about the same thing another time, you will have learned nothing from it and she will notice.
You are in for a rough ride, man. I have seen this many times with friends & relatives. The following is MY analysis - I know some will disagree.
Many women seek to dominate their partner, as yours does with you. Some easy-going guys are willing to go along, if for nothing else to keep the peace, or they think the issue is not worth fighting over.
The problem is, these women do not RESPECT their their submissive partner. They will push and push, trying to get him to stand up to her and EARN her respect.
She won't stop until he does. Which, based on my observation never happens. This makes for a very miserable existance, probably for both - certainly for him.
Grow some, stand your ground.
If you don't, you will probably only find happiness elsewhere. But based on my observations, you will stay, always hoping for the best and trying to appease her wrath, while never succeeding.
Momonator is completely right. Giving in does nothing to resolve the issue.
Why don't you try pushing her agaisnt a wall and make out with her. That'll shut her up.
The next time just ask her to shut up. I personally find it very hard to even think when there's an obnoxious woman around who's trying to prove a point all the time.
You obviously don't know how to run a happy home.
2 words.....
'Yes dear,' or 'OK love' on every single occasion before it escalates into an argument!