Is it normal that we txt all the time, but maybe he doesnt have feelings for me

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I've been talking to this boy for about a month now, and we've hungout quite a bit, but always with a few mutual friends. We text everyday, and he is always the one to text me first, also when i don't answer he will always text me again possibly even a couple, or more times. i've asked him a couple times to have a sleepover, but hed always say he couldnt just because he has work at 6am, idk if thats really the reason, but he says it is. This isnt really an is it normal kind of question, but im confused, and wanted to see what you thought of the situation maybe he doesnt have feelings for me? hes scared? Let me know what you think if more details are needed i could possibly let you know! thanks a bunch!

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    12 years ago

    I work at 6 AM and having buddies that don't understand that I have to get to bed early and wake up early SUCKS. Sounds like a good reason to me. Try to hang out with him alone some time. I wish I knew how old you were so I could give better advice.

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  • robbieforgotpw
    11 years ago

    Do you live on your own or with parents?

    Ok so you've barely spoken one on one but you ask him over for sex? He probably wants to have a real relationship with you, something more than casual sex. Or do you just want a friend with benefits only?
    There are plenty of guys who will come over for sex, he may want more.

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    • marisab33
      11 years ago

      I never said anything about sex.

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      • robbieforgotpw
        11 years ago

        What else does sleepover mean unless you're a child?
        Sorry I assumed you were older because he has a job. He probably thinks you mean sex which means we're back to my first response.

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  • crimsonSunset
    12 years ago

    You will get your answer if you go out with him alone. When only you and he will be, definitely your emotions will get chance to find its destination.

    Give a chance to yourself, meet with him in a weekend in a lovely place. Good luck!

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  • Ramit10
    12 years ago

    What about weekends? Seems a bit odd Idc how early I have to get up any invitation to stay at a girls and im there lol

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    Sleepover?

    If he's working at 6 then perhaps he's a bit old for sleepovers. Especially a sleepover with someone from the opposite sex.

    If you are both older... then it's also possible he thinks you mean something more adult. And he may be trying to politely turn you down without hurting your feelings.

    And there's always the chance that he really DOES have to get to work by 6. ... which means he has to get to sleep early so he won't be a zombie when he gets in.

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  • Alison89
    12 years ago

    I have several friends that I text all the time. Other than him refusing to have a sleep-over with you, you don't give a lot of information about the rest of the relationship.

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