Is it normal that we're basically a couple yet aren't officially going out?

So, there's this guy who I've known for years, I've had multiple crushes on him in the past but I let go of them since I didn't think he liked me back. Well, turns out that he actually has feelings for me(as in, a lot) and I've been so happy because I could finally stop hiding my feelings for him(so maybe I didn't entirely let the crushes go) and we've talked every single day for hours since. We've set physical boundaries between each-other and we both know that I only have feelings for him and he only has feelings for me, since we're completely honest in all aspects of life. It's basically like we're a couple. So, is it normal that we haven't really gone official yet, this just started happening this past week?

Voting Results
81% Normal
Based on 59 votes (48 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 7 )
  • dappled

    Aww, this is kind of heart-warming. I've had things like this where it just grew from what we both thought was friendship. They were some of the best relationships of my life. You're very lucky! And I'm very pleased for you. :)

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Sog

    ugck. Grow up.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Seustewart

    Weird.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Shackleford96

    Why the boundaries? Would it hurt to break the rules?

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • valisque

    aw shweet! Don't starve him hey. Snog once in a while at least.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • flyinlion

    Definitely normal! I wouldn't fret about it--just enjoy the moment for what it is, which sounds like a pre-relationship. He's probably just as nervous as you are especially since he JUST confessed that he's had feelings for you. Give it time, it'll all make sense :)

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Terence_the_viking

    You know you like each other just let nature run it's course.

    Comment Hidden ( show )