Is it normal that this horrible "memories" keep messing with my head?

59% Normal
12 Comments

I need your advice, I've got this "memories" haunting me. I usually smoke a little weed with my bf before sex. Sometimes I've noticed that my mind starts wandering and ramdom childhood memories appear in my head like flashbacks. I just try to think of something else and keep my mind in what I'm doing, so to speak.
The thing is once the flashback was about the priest in the church I used to attend as a child. Nothing specific, but There's no need to say I didn't like that memory appearing right then. Also once while I was really enjoying myself suddenly a thought of being a little girl came to me and made me really uncomfortable.
I don't now if what is coming up are real repressed memories or am i just forcing meaning in random memories that come in the least expected time. I've heard that sometimes you can make up fake memories. What do you suggest?
This is really horrible, it really puts me off sex.

Voting Results
59% Normal
Based on 34 votes (20 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 12 )
  • Short4Words
    8 years ago | pl

    Those sound like intrusive thoughts. Weed might be the culprit so why don't you try not using it before next time?

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    7
    7
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I'll have to try it to rule that out. Thanks

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • qualityaristocrat
    8 years ago

    This is why legalizing and normalizing marijuana and premarital intercourse are both detrimental to our society.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    4
    4
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Hope no one in the gov. Ever read my post, i ruined it for everyone.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      1
      1
  • NeofelisNebulosa
    8 years ago

    Don't smoke weed before sex? And yes, you can make up memories. I've forgotten every bit of my psychology terminology but you can create "memories" that you think are real. Memories can also be changed so that they do not reflect the reality of what happened.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    4
    4
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I hope that 's what's happening, whatever it's called.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • laurenmmb
    8 years ago

    If it continues when your not high go to a psychologist and talk to them

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Thanks, I will

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • Vjeffcoa
    7 years ago

    I know what you mean. My teenage years was horrible. I seen my mom do so much that I try not to think about them every night and day. You can't help but think about things. It's normal.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Anonymous Post Author
    8 years ago

    Im *delighted* to hear my worst fears can manage to trigger you imagination....

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • chained_rage
    8 years ago

    This post would have been so much cooler if "memories" was "mammaries"

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • anti-hero
    8 years ago

    Ask him to close the closet door before sundown if you know what I mean.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    -1
    -1