Is it normal that there is so many bitchy lesbians?

I am not saying all lesbians are. However it always seems to be its easier to find a bitchy lesbian. Like the fact they only have to deal with women makes them more bitchy.

They even treat their girlfriends like shit sometimes. Like they have this attitude since they are women they are some how part of a superior species. I have never met a bitchy gay man. I met the stereotypical "Oh no you didn't girlfriend" type attitudes but that attitude is I think more annoying than infuriating.

Like do they believe this is how normal people behave? or like how lesbians are suppose to behave? They get offended over anything, they will lecture you over everything. They come off with this condescending attitude that you are automatically much less intelligent since "Guess what im female so im the shit". They also have to go out of their way to tell everyone why they are special.

Are they trying to overcompensate for something?

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  • flightlesskiwi

    Funnily enough, one of the bitchiest people I know is a gay guy. You're lucky you've never met a bitchy gay guy. Trust me.

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  • Nokiot9

    It's the un admitted lack of cock. Makes them all pissy. Lol. I actually think it's because a lot of them are feminists and are just outwardly angered by men in general. And there are little reminders of patriarchy all over. That doesn't help either I assume. Lots are vegan too. Improper nutrition can lead to all kinds of nasty hormonal imbalances that can affect ur mood adversely.

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    • flailyhailey

      This is such an idiotic response, I am actually cringing right now. How embarrassing for you.

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      • Nokiot9

        Don't u JUST LOVE harsh generalizations?!

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  • Avant-Garde

    I think you're very unlucky. I knew some much older lesbians when I was growing up, who were actually pretty nice. Some were batshit crazy... With "questionable morals"... But none were bitchy from what I can remember. Maybe, these lesbians are angry feminists. Maybe, they are malnourished vegetarians/vegans. Maybe, they are under a lot of stress. Etc. There are so many factors that could be at work here. Can you avoid the ones that are bitchy?

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    • You think they are just angry feminists?

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      • Avant-Garde

        Some may very well be.

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  • Ellenna

    What, you've really and truly never met a bitchy gay man? Or a bitchy straight woman or a bitchy straight man? Or a sexually indeterminate anyone?

    What planet are you on?

    Maybe you have unrealistically high expectations of Lesbians: I know I did when I was a Lesbian Feminist for quite a few years and a very small vocal (therefore popular with the media) sub group sincerely believed in "Lesbian Ethics" and that Lesbians were morally superior to everyone else.

    When I experienced domestic violence and a friend was raped within that culture I started the process of getting out, which meant I had to find an entire new community for myself because I'd also unexpectedly found myself attracted to a man and was honest about it.

    However, that experience didn't lead me to to judge people by their sexuality, either favourably or unfavourably, because that's as silly as judging people by their ethnicity.

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  • writeHri

    I only know two lesbians, one that i love and the other is kind of full of herself so i don't care for, but neither of them are bitchy really. But being a lesbian is a lot harder than being straight with how many homophobes they have to deal with so maybe you're just used to coming across a lot of just angry stressed out people who are just so used to having to be en garde all the time that it makes them jerks or seem like jerks.

    plus homophobia against men is more like a moral attack like you belong in hell and bla bla but i think women have to deal with less of a 'gayness makes you evil' sort of treatment and more of a 'gayness makes you ugly and gross' kind of think

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  • green_boogers

    There are bitchy people of every orientation, and ethnicity. But IMHO, there is a uniquely negative and putrid personality associated with some butch dykes. I would say the proportion of this negativity is not any higher than with any other group when taken at random.

    If you're a butch reading this, I'll start by assuming you're a nice person.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Are there?

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  • flailyhailey

    What a sweeping generalization. I thought people got over making those after high school...?

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