Is it normal that the only person i hate at my work is my "best friend"??

Firstly we have had an on and off friendship for years. She went through a bitchy/slutty stage and we were not friends for maybe few years but then she came back in my life and she had changed back to her funny, awesome self again. It seemed that I had my best mate back!
I recently have a weekend job working where my child hood best friend works. I am pretty sure she recommended that I apply for the job too, so anyhow I did and I got it. I was stoked!
The weird thing is, is that ever since I have started there I feel like she has been snobbing me :/
She used to ask to hang out like take our dogs for a walk like meet up at the park. I asked her if she was keen on hanging out and she said something like that she was super busy with work ( And I know this is true fact). Then I see her in photos on facebook clubbing it with her old bitchy friends!!
Also did I mention that shes my boss at work!!
When I had my trial day she actually txt me that morning saying how when I come into work can I not say too much about us hanging out and being friends as it could be weird in the future. I figured that was fair enough except she's the one that's made it weird. Initially she wasn't really friendly at work towards me at all. Once I waved and said bye (said her name) and she just gave me a quick glance and a tiny smile, though she was talking to a customer. She could have at least acknowledged me properly though. She just has seemed coldish and matter of fact at work. She eventually asked me via fb how the job was going but apart from that, nothing. She has always had a bluntness there but I have just accepted that that's her but this feels like she is becoming that same bitch again that made us fall out a long time ago. IIN??

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  • thegypsysailor

    Sounds to me like you have no idea what a 'friend' is.

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  • Ellenna

    She doesn't want to mix friendship with her working life and that's entirely normal, it doesn't means she's a bitch and I doubt if I'd be calling her a friend, maybe a former friend or an acquaintance.

    You got the job: if you want to keep it I'd be cooling it at work and keeping your own social life separate

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    • Yeah that's what we are doing except I have not made it weird and awkward- she has!! The fact that she doesn't even talk to me outside of work at all and only directs me at work as to what to do says it all. -_-

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      • omgcatz

        I do not believe in this weird philosophy of not mixing business and pleasure. I'm friends with all of my coworkers, even my boss (both inside and outside of work).

        It really sounds like you have a user instead of a "friend". She only talks to you when she needs you. That isn't the kind of person I'd willingly interact with. Do your work and avoid her when possible. Don't accept hanging out anymore if she offers.

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        • Yeah always figured she was- thing is- I grew up with her and got used to her ways. Eventually it stopped bothering me and I stopped taking it personally. Idc much any more but now I feel shes nt even respecting me so now ima call it quits! Thanks for ur advice :)

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  • Ace09

    she's a fucking bitch

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  • ArayaLioness

    Seems normal to me. I'd ignore her.

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