Is it normal that the guy wants the ldr and...

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So I've been with my boyfriend for about 1/2 a year and he's about to go to college about an hour and a half away...I am only a year behind him so it's not like he has to "wait".

HE wants the long distance relationship and he says that we'll be fine. We already have a semi/ long distance (we both are super busy so we get to see each other once a week) and our relationship started on skype...we would skype because we couldn't actually see each other due to meeting during final exams.

I like that he is totally down for it and he's never asked to "see anyone else" while we were apart, or "go on a break"...how do I know this is for real, do guys really want to stay committed?

IIN?

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    In what world is an hour and a half a LDR, unless it's an hour and a half by jet?

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    • theworldsworst
      8 years ago

      You're right. But it's the transitions for him, (college is a big milestone) and the not being able to have the option to see him everyday and if he's willing to actually follow through with what he says....idk. He seems more into it, but it's just words

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        Go with the flow and see what happens.

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  • Aries
    8 years ago

    It depends where you see your future with him , what the next year or two looks like for you as feelings fade without contact for long periods of time . If you want to marry him , try to work it out otherwise move on . It also depends if this type of relationship is enough for you , will it keep you happy , satisfied , is it worth it? It wouldn't really be for me however it all depends on the circumstances .. we can advise you but you ultimately need to figure out for yourself .

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    Not every guy is a cheater you know? Why would he ask to see other people if he's already in a relationship with you? If he says he wants to be with you then you should trust him, stop bein' so sus.

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  • Angelmikeal0
    8 years ago

    i think the right question is are you interested in continuing the relationship? cause you are the one with doubts not him?

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  • CheyChey
    8 years ago

    one and half hours is nothing, trust me. If you leave home at 5 you'd be able to have dinner at half 6. I recently lost someone because of distance, he lived 14 hours away. So trust me an hour and a half as half is manageable, goodluck!

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  • Terence_the_viking
    8 years ago

    Woah that is some didstance

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