Is it normal that sometimes whilst masturbating i get unwanted thoughts?

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I masturbate to take some time out for myself, to orgasm, relax, clear my mind etc. But some times I can't seem to block out all my thoughts. Thoughts of my family creep in my head, same sex unattractive friends, people I extremely dislike. It is a turn off and stops me from fulling concentrating on masturbation. When I cannot fully concentrate on masturbation and lose myself in the feeling, it results in me not being able to orgasm which is extremely frustrating.
So is it normal to get unwanted thoughts like this at a time you really do not want them?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Yep everyone does it.

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  • BurnaBaby27
    11 years ago

    It happens. Just think about how gratifying those few seconds of climax will be. That should push the other thoughts out of the way long enough to finish the deed and reap the reward.

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    I feel sorry for you. I'm so glad I don't have that problem.

    When I FAP, I think of nothing except fapping and my porn. It's Amazing!

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    I have that sometimes, though not exactly like what you're talking about. Like one day I was masturbating, and I do it to calm down, to think, almost like a form of meditation sometimes. But then I'll go and think too much about a problem (at the time my financial situation) and totally lose the mood to do anything.

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  • prasatko
    11 years ago

    Our mind is sometimes our enemy...Perhaps when it happens in the context of masturbation, watching porn might help to focus the attention and protect the mind from unwanted / unrelated thoughts.

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  • PapzBSlim
    11 years ago

    You are obviously too stressed out and need to relax more. Meditation will help clear your mind. Unwanted thoughts can sometimes cross your mind but I do not think it is normal or healthy for them to linger while in this "self-satisfaction" act.

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