Is it normal that sometimes i like him, and sometimes i don't?

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So I have been friends with this guy for a few years. There are times when I feel totally infatuated with him, and I want him to be my boyfriend. But other times I am completely disgusted by him and I can't even believe I ever liked him, and I get pissed when he flirts with me. Then I go back to liking him and so on. I can like him for 5 minutes and then not like him anymore, or like him for a day, ect. Any idea why this might be happening? Is this normal?

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  • Ixu
    11 years ago

    I used to feel that way for someone, but he is a complete asshole. I liked certain aspects of him but overall as a person he was mostly a complete dick, so I decided that I definitely don't like him and I should stop thinking that sometimes I do. Yuck I can't believe I used to think of him that way, he is repulsive.

    All I'm saying is weigh the pros and cons. :)

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  • Ldizzy1234
    11 years ago

    I think you're just highly aware of his good and bad traits. Try focusing on the good things. Or just be more accepting of him for who he is. Understand that with all the good, comes some bad. And that he's obviously not perfect. You see him for who he is. Maybe when you feel yourself getting annoyed or 'disgusted' by him, spend some time apart. You might be spending too much time together. And like Ixu said, it would probably be a good idea to weigh the pros and cons. Maybe you could overlook some things.

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  • kerk_
    11 years ago

    People have faults in them, you like his good aspects and dislike the bad ones.

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