Is it normal that so many people on this site don't believe i'm a female?

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I just find it very funny that so many people don't think im a female.I do tend to think like a man sometimes so when i comment on a post i understand why its hard to tell what i am Haha and on top of that im supposed to somehow convince them all over the internet that im really a female.I honestly think its a trick to see me naked.I might just change my profile pic to a real picture of me,but if i did how would they know for sure it was me.Anyway is this normal?And shouldn't they be showing me proof about who they are too?

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    11 years ago | pl

    Reminds me of something I came across somewhere...
    "Welcome to the Internet where men are men, women are men and kids are the FBI"
    There has been or still is some truth to that which is why females have to prove themselves so much.

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    • RougeTheBat
      11 years ago

      Yes i do feel like i have to prove myself.Which is pretty much impossible to do over the internet.

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      • disthing
        11 years ago

        Eurgh when I used to be on this one chat room, people assumed I was a girl on occasion. The amount of guys who ask "asl? got a cam?" is just disturbing. Frankly I wouldn't want to prove I was a girl, if I was one.

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      • shuggy-chan
        11 years ago

        Those people are trolling, I peg u from day on a vagina-bearer. I mean what guy liked rouge over knuckles?

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      • ucipher8
        11 years ago

        I want to believe as gender on the internet to be a question mark at all times. Unless you have actually met before, i wouldn't feel the need to whether i was a male, female or transgender (see what i did there?) If your a woman, great. if you actually arent, well i told you so (lol). And if you just have masculine/feminine traits or thoughts then well, i think thats evolution coming into play. Im also drunk

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      • gummy_jr
        11 years ago

        Lol I thought you were a chick too, and shuggy is a cat??

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        • ucipher8
          11 years ago

          everytime i see chan i want to think of young, girl... stop that

          (this is a humor, ok des?)

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      • anti-hero
        11 years ago

        I believe you.

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    • IrishPotato
      11 years ago

      Rule 16.

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    • 53739
      8 years ago

      I love that quote. So true

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago | pl

    Unless you want extra attention or recognition, there's really no need for anyone to HAVE to know your sex/gender so it's best to just leave it alone.

    ALSO, FOR FUCK'S SAKE, AFTER PERIODS AND COMMAS YOU MUST PRESS THE SPACE BAR. THAT IS PROPER PUNCTUATION. YOUR PUNCTUATION, IT'S... it's making my brain itch :(

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    • disthing
      11 years ago

      I've got a chopstick you could poke up your nose if you want to scratch that itch :) A gift from me to you.

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      • NeuroNeptunian
        11 years ago

        Ohh, thank you! *Scratches*
        OPPPIIIEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!11!!!!

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    • RougeTheBat
      11 years ago

      Hehe sorry :p

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  • Eveyana
    11 years ago

    I think a lot of males on the internet have become very paranoid because of bad experiences they've had with other guys pretending to be girls so they tend to be very cautious. I also frequent a certain gamin forum and I'm always met with much skepticism when I let anyone know I'm female.

    I don't like being addressed as a male. I prefer the proper pronouns (i.e. "she" or "her"). It does get a little tiresome at times trying to cut through all of the disbelief and paranoia. I understand where it stems from but it is annoying as all hell constantly trying to prove our gender to jaded males.

    Just be yourself and if someone insists that you are a male and continues using male pronouns to address you (which I personally find very disrespectful), put them on ignore and move on.

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    • RougeTheBat
      11 years ago

      Yes.Everything you said..just..yes.

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    • VioletTrees
      11 years ago

      I don't know, I think it has more to do with stereotypes and rumours than actual bad experiences. Men pretending to be women online would be at least as likely to target women as men, if not more so, yet you don't get that kind of skepticism from women.

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      • SuperBenzid
        11 years ago

        "Men pretending to be women online would be at least as likely to target women as men"
        Men pretending to be women to target women... does not compute... does not make sense...

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        • VioletTrees
          11 years ago

          How doesn't that make sense? I've come across men pretending to be bisexual or lesbian women looking for bisexual and lesbian women, as well as men pretending to be women in eating disorder communities and other mostly female online communities to try to get pictures from women there. There are also some men who fetishise disability who will pretend to be disabled women to get close to disabled women. It's creepy as fuck, honestly.

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  • starie
    11 years ago

    You're sex is irrelevant.
    No one cares and if anyone does and you feel the need to prove your sex then you're probably as dumb as they are x)

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    11 years ago

    Nobody cares

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    11 years ago

    It's strange how many people on this site think i'm human.

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    • 69
      11 years ago

      i thought you were a vegetable or plant but i'm no people, i'm just a number

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      • kingofcarrotflowers
        11 years ago

        Thats cool. I'm a rare breed of ferret

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        • 69
          11 years ago

          cool. do you rule over a field of lacy wild carrots?

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          • kingofcarrotflowers
            11 years ago

            Unfortunatly no :( but that's the dream

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            • 69
              11 years ago

              that's a nice dream

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    Do not dispair, you aren't the only one! A lot of people seem to think my internet self is a male. Every now and then, you should reveal your true gender and eventually people will start to remember, unless they are new:)

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  • KaffeInjection
    11 years ago

    Meanwhile in Russia.

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  • DandyElfman
    11 years ago

    I sense a true.

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  • anti-hero
    11 years ago

    If you are going to pretend to be a female, don't try so hard. It is obvious. People don't think you are a guy if you simply think like a guy. I mean Wigz thinks like a guy. But they will think you are a guy if you talk about your vagina out of the blue multiple times a day. Plus we all know all of your accounts anyway.

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    • wigsplitz
      11 years ago

      That's a lowercase w, asshole.

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      • anti-hero
        11 years ago

        I apologize. On an unrelated note, I found a picture that is basically the way I picture you in my mind. Minus the Canadian part.

        http://www.evilconservatives.net/attachment.php?attachmentid=1311&d=1345434062

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        • wigsplitz
          11 years ago

          That's pretty accurate.

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          • howaminotmyself
            11 years ago

            I think you can take her.

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          • shuggy-chan
            11 years ago

            Nawww #1 used have artfully placed hands from behind coverings nipples, not a bra

            #2 warpaint

            #3 ur axe be double sided

            #4 no work gloves

            #5 no shuggybears lurking in bushs

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          • anti-hero
            11 years ago

            I thought so.

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    • RougeTheBat
      11 years ago

      I am not pretending to be a female i am one.If i want to talk about my fucking vagina i will and how does that mean im a guy?!I don't see anyone making a big deal about a guy that talks about his penis all the time and i don't see anyone saying oh since hes talking about his penis then he must be a female.That makes no sense.Its a double fucking standard.Plus what does we all know your accounts mean?

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      • bananaface
        11 years ago

        It's never crossed my mind that you were male. For some reason a few people here have thought I was male, although I think it's fairly obvious that I'm not. It's easy enough to guess wrong, although if you've told people you're female and they still don't believe you, then I find that a bit strange (unless they have good reasons).

        Counterfeit.Circus has a very good point, though. When people go out of their way to declare something about themselves it comes across as being suspicious. Sort of like over-compensating, I guess.

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        • RougeTheBat
          11 years ago

          I see what you mean.My sense of humor is really raucy so i guess the jokes about my vagina is what did it.oh well i guess guys just aren't comfortable with a girl who has the balls to talk about her vagina Haha.

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          • bananaface
            11 years ago

            Well, it was just one of the possible reasons. I'm not sure why people don't believe you, so it's all just speculation, really. I can't always put my finger on why I feel suspicious of certain people; there's just something insincere about them. But, like I said, I've never thought you were male.

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            • RougeTheBat
              11 years ago

              Thanks and for the record it was mainly just one person accusing me of not being a female but,i don't want to name names....Counterfeit.Circus.

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          • IrishPotato
            11 years ago

            On a side note, Rouge is awesome.

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          • VioletTrees
            11 years ago

            I talk about my vagina almost constantly, and I've never had anybody here think I'm a guy, so I don't think it's that. Maybe so, though! Who knows.

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      • anti-hero
        11 years ago

        Rouge, I am/was just messing with you. Sorry for the confusion. I thought you knew I was kidding. That is my basic function on IIN, to make jokes and mess with people.

        It doesn't matter to me what you are or aren't...

        Hell, for over a year I have been pretending to be a 26 year old southern white boy. When the truth is I am a 67 year old black grandmother from Flint, Michigan. It is fun to pretend.

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        • RougeTheBat
          11 years ago

          Ok i forgive you :)

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          • anti-hero
            11 years ago

            Just know in the future that I am a joking kind of guy. Thank you for forgiving me.

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      • Darkoil
        11 years ago

        Please talk about your fucking vagina, I am all ears....go

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      • willyma
        11 years ago

        girls in real life. dont really openly talk about thier vagina's when men are present (especially men they don't know). thats where the ssuspicion comes in

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  • willyma
    11 years ago

    There are no women on the internet. But seriously, most guys when interacting with someone over the interent will assume them to be guys. because it is very rare to find women on forums (in my general opinion.

    It's only in social networks where this is different.

    Furthermore being female can be seen as an advantage because many people in a forum will be extra nice to the girl in hopes of that virtual pussy.

    In addition i believe someone is a women, only when they start defending feminism. or talk about rape culture LOL

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  • Mr.Dongle
    11 years ago

    TITS or GTFO.

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    • RougeTheBat
      11 years ago

      No tits so get the fuck out.

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  • IrishPotato
    11 years ago

    In all honesty though, I don't think anyone with common sense would care that much.

    Really though, I think it's because you mentioned your vagina at some point, thus people won't believe you.

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  • Shackleford96
    11 years ago

    Why do you feel as though you have anything to prove? If they don't believe you, fuck em.

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    • RougeTheBat
      11 years ago

      You know what?..Your right.Fuck them.Best advice.Thanks!

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      • Shackleford96
        11 years ago

        You're welcome :)

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  • Andyen
    10 years ago

    Though i post questions without letting people know my sex by the way i write, people always asume im a female when im not, so i totally think its normal. If you think you think like a guy, then it may come across in your words you write. But is that so bad? i mean its just how people precive you through words.

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  • alv1592
    11 years ago

    Which user are you? I can usually tell, unless I've only seen one or two comments by you that didn't say anything indicating your gender.

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    • RougeTheBat
      11 years ago

      Im RougeTheBat.

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  • Iamagirl
    11 years ago

    I am a girl.

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  • buildermk
    11 years ago

    Ov corse u r

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