Is it normal that so many people bore me to death

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Where are the people I can have deep conversations with? It's like everyone wants to talk about the weather or fucking reality TV. I thus prefer being alone a worrying amount. I don't feel like I can wholly be my weird self with anyone so I just spend time in my head. I even willingly drift away from the only 'friends' I have because I can't stand the conversations I have to pretend to care about.

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  • howaminotmyself
    8 years ago

    Not everyone feels the need to have a deep and meaningful conversation. And some people only talk about deeper issues. Which reminds me of a friend....sometimes I wish he would just shut up. Seriously, not everything has a hidden meaning.

    Don't worry about it, there are deep thinkers out there.

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  • Koda
    8 years ago

    I agree. Nobody I know seems to want to talk about anything that requires thought anymore. Even worse than that is how unfunny everybody is. The only one I can have a laugh with nowadays is my brother. Maybe people think they're above being silly?

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  • galen
    8 years ago

    Well, as Jean-Paul Sartre once wrote...

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  • Elixis
    8 years ago

    You need a group of friends that you can talk about your thoughts or interests about. Seems like your current friends aren't close enough to you to have those deep conversations about. Seek more friends, or evaluate which of your friends are able to take it to the next level and become your close friends that you can have deep talks with.

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  • theseeker
    8 years ago

    Yeah, it seems like in person those deep conversations just don't happen. Although, not long ago I met a couple completely random strangers and we somehow just got into this deep conversation about things related to life and people that you think about, but never talk about. I remembered it because it was one of the most meaningful conversations I've ever had. For some strangers that don't know each other at all to come together and have a conversation like that was awesome to me!

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