Is it normal that reading stories on here makes me doubt my relationship?

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I'll think things in my relationship are normal and I'll be use to them, but then I'll read stories on is it normal and doubt that those things are right. It's been causing me to worry and reconsider things. My boyfriend has had sex with 42 girls other than me and he's 19. He's never had a girlfriend until he met me. Everyone says I changed him and it always seemed quite obvious that he's changed now. I always found this okay given the situation but, then I'll go on is it normal and see a story similar to this or something similar in our relationship and it will make me upset and doubt us.
Is it normal for is it normal to make you doubt something you thought was normal?
Is anyone else happy until they read something on the site that makes you re think?

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Based on 39 votes (20 yes)
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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    11 years ago

    How on Earth do you know he's slept with 42 other women? Please don't tell me you asked him. That's page 24 of How To Be A Crazy Girlfriend 101.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    I totally agree with the above comments.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Is it normal is anything but normal. ANYTHING. It's a bunch of horny vigrins, who pretend to be 19 so they don't get kicked off the site. I go on here to read how abnormal people and their replies are. If anything, the things your are reading are worth a cheap "Pshh" and a roll of the eyes.

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  • hurtgirlfriend
    11 years ago

    It's normal. I read shit on here all of the time and start worrying. This is not to say that you should worry, but that it's normal to read things on here and compare to your situation and wonder.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    Abnormal doesn't always equal unhappy or bad.

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  • Unimportant
    11 years ago

    Don't take this site too seriously.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    It's not the stories that are making you doubt the relationship it is your own insecurities.

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  • howaminotmyself
    11 years ago

    You should never use the stories on here to judge your own relationship.

    If it makes you feel better, my husband can't remember how many people he slept with before me. The past doesn't really matter and I don't care what IIN thinks about it.

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  • NotFloydzie
    11 years ago

    IIN has never made me doubt something I thought was normal, no. I've learned a thing or two from reading stories but that's about it. Because of this, I don't think it's normal that you're doubting your relationship just because you read something here. You should be confident enough to know the way your partner is and they way you are. Don't give it too much thought. Everyone is different, everyone has their own way of telling a story and their own way of dealing with their problems.

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