Is it normal that people around me start to act like me!

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I've noticed the longer I am around a person, the more they start to act like me. I have some really strange and anti-social behaviors, and even those seem to rub off on people. It's weird. People seem to become needy to me after a while, as if I am the only friend they have or the last person on earth. It's like they imitate my behavior to please me or something. I hate this! Why does this happen?? I don't mean for this to happen, apparently I have some kind of really infectious personality and cause people to feel like they need me and can't do anything without me. It never starts out this way either, it just seems to happen if anyone hangs out with me for long enough. It's like I'm the dominant person, but so dominant that I become some kind of who-knows-what to people, like they can't do anything without me. In a group setting, I am not exactly the one you'd pick out to be the "leader" but it's more like I run a puppet regime of sorts, I get to people individually somehow, but honestly I don't want this and I don't try to do this, it just happens. People seem to have this respect and fear of me and feel like they have to make me happy or else...it's weird...

Normal?

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  • nanimeow
    12 years ago

    I hate to burst your bubble but a lot of people mimic other people's behavior. It's called society. We all copy each other at something. I personally copy stuff from my friends and they copy stuff from me. It develops into insides jokes between us. Maybe your antisocial behavior fuels for people to act like you because they don't know how to respond to you. Therefore, they just mimic what you do.
    But there is the chance that you mainly associate with highly insecure people who find it hard to be themselves.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    12 years ago

    Sounds like you're just full of yourself.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It means you're cool and people wanna be like you.

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  • thecoldhardtruth
    12 years ago

    It's normal that people who hang out in a certain group of friends start to talk, act, have the same mannerisms as eachoer. It's human nature to want to fit in. This especially happens when a given individual seems happy and stable with the selfs, others will imitate so that can be seen the same way.

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago

    u can use this to your advantage by getting blow jobs and bitt sex from your followers

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  • YummyRee
    12 years ago

    Maybe if you keep doing what your doing, and not worry about if people notice you or not, they would start to like you even more... If you be yourself and not what everybody wants you to and a lil mysterious people will come around and try to get to know you more... Even ones not ment to stand blend in with others. Don't try so hard.

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  • myownopinions
    12 years ago

    You have what is called influence. If you don't like it, then change what you do and how you talk.

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