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A lot of times, other people will say someone is flirting with me but I don't see it.....I just think certain people are naturally nice and smiling and are that way with everyone....waitresses, hostesses, cashiers, etc.. But girls will say that they are flirting with me????
Just because someone else said they're flirting doesn't mean it's true. Might be true, might not be.
You're right. Don't worry about what others say, just keep being yourself.
I work at a job that requires good customer service, because it will keep customers coming back and buying more items. This includes conversation, jokes, remembering their orders, and more. It's exhausting when some think I'm flirting, because they become pushy and weird, which results in them holding up the line and wasting everyone's time. In the end I just get my manager to talk to them about random items on sale while I walk away and assist other customers.
It's normal. I'm pretty oblivious when it comes to stuff like that, much to the dismay of the person who is hanging out with me at the time.
I also wasn't sure if maybe girls know other girls better than I do, or that if I'm with a girl she may be jealous and be more on the lookout for something that's not really there
I don't generally notice if someone is flirting with me, unless the person is being an obnoxious creep about it. If someone likes me, and I like him back then I probably don't notice until he's actually asked me out, and we've had a successful date. I tend to shrug people off as just being nice or sassy or whatever. I'm a Southern girl who grew up feeling rather unpretty, so I've just always tended to think people were be just being all sugary sweet like they would to anyone else.
...meh.
It is only okay for girls to flirt with guys...but
if a guy tries to flirt with a girl he is immediately put on the registered sex offender list for misconduct. #RichardGereslifematters