Is it normal that nothing makes me happy except sexual expression?

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For the last month or so I haven't been able to find happiness in anything. All the things I do just seem to be a distraction from an existence that everyone else is also experiencing. Nothing is special, its all been felt and experienced. I'm irritable and impatient. I'm bored and hard to entertain.

The only thing I look forward to and pursue is sex or sexual expression. Whether it be a new partner, or a tumblr blog, or thinking up a new fantasy, or trying something new with my gf, etc, sex seems to be the only thing that makes me happy.

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  • modernism
    9 years ago

    Boredom plus human nature is bound to equal a high sex drive. We basically all go through random phases of just sexsexsexsex.

    But if it's serious enough to be worried about it, then I'd say occupy yourself with hobbies. Draw, hike, play an instrument, or play video games. Anything to get your mind off sex. Or go out with friends to do something exciting like lazer tag so you can make more non-sexual relationships.

    Just keep yourself busy and hopefully you'll have other interests besides sex.

    But btw, thinking about sex itself isn't bad - it only becomes a problem when it's the only thing that makes you happy. Hope this helped.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    As long as it doesn't negatively interfere with your life, it shouldn't be a problem. Sex is very important, vital even to keep up your sexual health. I wonder how much I've been damaging myself by staying celibate.

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  • regisphilbin
    9 years ago

    Sex is so much more than just physical. It's also mental, emotional, psychological. It involves intimacy, trust, companionship, love, even sacrifice. And I think the fact that sex is so all encompassing makes it more beautiful and something that should be appreciated more. The human brain is one of the most complex things ever. The best sexual fantasies are the most creative ones. Sex by itself pales in comparison to sex as it relates to the world, society, interpersonal relationships, socio-economics, technology, spirituality, even our place in the universe. My mind races all the time with a variety of thoughts and ideas but I always come back to sex, the most fundamental characteristic of our existence, and that ultimately enriches my life.

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