Is it normal that not many like me, but they always fall deeply in love?

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I am a 23 year old average guy. Not many girls like me. In fact, I have a very hard time finding a girlfriend or picking up girls. I am weird combination of somewhat shy, not so good looking and kind of geeky. Most of the time, I am alone.

However, every now and then some girls (and guys too) do fall for me. But the problem is that they don't just like me, they fall in love... and they fall too much in love actually. To the point it becomes creepy. To the point that they say that they can't imagine a life without me... to the point where they stalk me...

I don't know, I don't understand why most people just don't find me attractive, but the ones that do are so infatuated... is any of this normal?

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  • ProseAthlete
    11 years ago

    Some people are freak magnets, and you just might be one of them, sorry to say. You say you're pretty average, but you probably have something striking or unusual about you that draws some people. That isn't a bad thing, but it does mean you'll get stuck with more than the average number of obsessive types.

    I don't know that there's really a solution for it, but maybe you can get better at deflecting the scarier types before they get too enraptured?

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  • Johnnytherat
    11 years ago

    i already feel like stalking you... crazy huh? well im serious

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  • FredSumper23
    11 years ago

    Yeah but it also kills you. Flamethrower "ammo" is extremely hard to find. Also they're illegal. And outside of the military it's fairly difficult to find grenades. Also did I mention that the nuke kills you? Not to mention WHERE THE FUCK ARE YOU GOING TO GET A NUKE?! XD

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  • ScooterNyne
    11 years ago

    Wish I had your "problem" lol.

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  • LizardSkin
    11 years ago

    Some chicks are attracted to different qualities. Most of them go for Mr. Tall dark and handsome. But not all of them.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Sounds weird, yeah. I definitely need more info.

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  • XoSkyPegasesXo
    11 years ago

    It's just luck really. I'm 22 and I have the exact same problem if I give a guy a chance we could be together a week then they fall in love and cry a river if I turn out not to like them so much! People are weird

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  • Polan
    11 years ago

    Thats strange.How come they fall in love if they dont like you?

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  • willyma
    11 years ago

    u sound like a nutcase

    i bet these stalkers are propa butterz

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  • FredSumper23
    11 years ago

    You might consider buying a gun if they stalk you. I'm not saying shoot them. I'm saying just in case they go totally batshit. I recommend the FNP-90. 50 round magazine. Bullpup design (meaning it has the power of an assault rifle without the size because the barrels further back in the gun). Small size. Very accurate.

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    • disthing
      11 years ago

      Nah I'd recommend an L109 grenade. Or at least a flamethrower. Fuck it, get a nuke! Big size. Obliterates everything.

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    • Geneva5
      11 years ago

      Do you still have that tattoo of a dolphin on yr balls ?

      I removed mine with a scalpel and a toothpick - sorts felt Hott !!

      Is it normal to not give a fuck !

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