Is it normal that my wife likes control over me

My wife began bodybuilding a few years ago. She's been taking anabolic steroids the last 2. She has changed. She looks more manly in the face and she's very muscular. Even her clit has gotten big. She talked me into taking daily estrogen therapy over a year ago. I know that she's been seeing another female bodybuilder. I've told her that she doesn't spend enough time with me. She said the only way that we can continue to be a couple is if I take my estrogen because she's not going to relinquish her dominance over me. I don't want to lose her. I cry over her daily and I know that is the estrogen but I've been taking it too long to be the man that I was.