Is it normal that my wife is deseprately trying to "protect" me from her cousin

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Is it normal that my wife is trying to "protect" me from her cousin who she used to use drugs with? she says she is crazy and dosen't want me talking to her cousin because she is going to lie to me and break us up. she deleted her facebook, my facebook, changed her number and cryed alot last night. now i think either she is hiding something or she is hiding something. she has lied to me in the past about shit like this and the allegations her cousin are throwing out are redicilous. but why would my wife freak out that bad if it's not true. anybody please help and don't troll please just tell me straight up.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    she deleted YOUR facebook?

    it sounds like she's having control issues.

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  • tonsoffun300zx
    12 years ago

    no her cousin is just a druggy loser and is unhappy with her own life and she heard we are doing good from a mutual friend so now she wants to talk to me about her "past" but her cousin is such a bull shitter i think im going to let sleeping bears lie kinda i already talked to her cousin and she sent me a bunch of junk and made up editted emails with pictures of random girls it's just funny, but what had me most concerned is the fact that my wife freaked out hardcore you know. and jussayin i know i can't spell im kinda indifferent right now so my thought process is off. i'm normally a great speller.

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  • chadams
    12 years ago

    She is hiding something. Either something in her past that she doesn't want you to know about OR something she has done/is doing recently. Go with your gut on this one.

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  • sunny_wantsome
    12 years ago

    Break the spell take her out nice evening and ask her out..

    Beer always helps to speak up ;)

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  • jussayin
    12 years ago

    More info. needed.
    1. you cant spell
    2. your wife may have control issues, i agree w. Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress.
    3.it seems there have been lies on the part of both her & her cousin. check youself & your girl on that one.

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  • Ramit10
    12 years ago

    She is hiding something big. From the sounds of it. Tell her you want to hear it from her mouth of you will just go ask the cousin what it is. If she says its nothing then ask her why she deleted facebook and changed her number.

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  • Dazzie
    12 years ago

    There's something more going on here besides the drugs and all. You have to talk with your wife ASAP. This is not normal.

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  • BoredGuy
    12 years ago

    OFC she is hiding something and its BIG too.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    There is obviously something that her cousin has to blackmail her with and your wife is trying to protect you from her. If you've any sense you'll let sleeping dogs lie, trust that your wife knows her best and stay well away from the cousin.

    Don't go looking for trouble and if this girl is jealous of your marriage she could make up anything!!

    Tell your wife to calm down and respect her wishes. You have no need to invite evil into your lives.

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    • tonsoffun300zx
      12 years ago

      supposedly her cousin said she was arrested for soliciting prostitution would it be bad if i did a backround check on it?

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      • joybird
        12 years ago

        Depends what you're going to do with the information.

        OK Let's say she was, are you going to split up with her?
        Would you believe her if she told you she was just waiting on a friend and the police got it all wrong?

        The big question is - do you REALLY want to know?
        Be careful what you wish for - you may never be able to forgive her and cast it up in every argument. She obviously doesn't want you two to separate or lose what you have but if you want out, go ahead and check.

        A marriage is a lifetime commitment and there are some things that you don't ask coz you don't need to know the answer.

        Think about it before you jump in.

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        • tonsoffun300zx
          12 years ago

          you got it joybird you are the FUCKING BEST!!! we all have secerets and some of them just don't need to come out i wish i could meet you and thank you personally. you rock!

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          • joybird
            12 years ago

            Many thanks.

            I may give different advice to many others who are teenagers but mostly I've been there, done that ... and still married 20+ years later :o)

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            • tonsoffun300zx
              12 years ago

              and i appreciate the wisdom of others especally ones who know what they are talking about.

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    Not normal, but if you love her, work with her to get threw it! Baby steps, a little bit at a time, don't push!

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  • theabider
    12 years ago

    Does her cousin have a crush on you? More info needed...

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