Is it normal that my wife has a gf

First off, I'm 25 and my wife is 47. We've been married for 3 years. I have an excellent paying job, working full time. She works part-time. I found out nearly a year ago that she has been seeing another woman. She convinced me that I needed to be a certain way to keep our marriage together. She wanted me to play the role of a woman when we are intimate. She bought me sexy intimate women's wear, then had me wearing makeup, like mascara. She watches lesbian porn. I was thinking that we are even closer than we were before. I even shave my body hair for her. She said that I needed to be a little more touch and feely for her, so she convinced me to take estrogen, which I've been doing for 8 months. I've definitely changed and become half feminine. She tells me that now I'm exactly what she's wanted. But she never stopped seeing her gf apparently, and lately she's been spending nights with her instead of me. I'm jealous of her gf now and I don't know if that's good or bad. I don't want to lose my wife so I keep doing what she wants me to.

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  • CDmale4fem

    Ok, I read the rest of your story. She's old enough to be your mom, she's gonna continue doing what she wants since she sees you more of a boy toy than an emotional equal. She has no respect for you and if you don't mind that then you are good to go. The age difference shows she is not gonna have a 25 yr old telling her what she can and can't do.

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  • CDmale4fem

    You can always go get a boyfriend. Just kidding. When people get a new puppy that's not even house broke yet if you let the puppy continue doing the same thing, pee and poop on the floor, and when the dog gets to be 2-3 years old it's gonna be very hard to give the dog an attitude adjustment for him to know nit to SHIT and pee in the house. The longer your wife has a girlfriend and you do nothing about it, she will continue to do what she wants to do because you are not doing anything about it.

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    • I've been getting very emotional and sensitive. I know that's because of the estrogen and I'm feeling like I have no control except to listen and do what she's telling me to.

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    • She wanted me to triple my estrogen dosage, which I just started, because she said that I would grow breasts to the size that she wants me to have. I'm in competition with her gf, so I should do what my wife wants to make her happy with me.

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  • MamaKy

    It's not normal. And you should talk to her about it. Tell her that you are feeling jealous about her other Girlfriend and you should try to find out what would make your wife wanna spend more time with you. Also.. you should feel jealous, You have every right to.

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  • dicka912

    It is not normal but you have to do whatever it takes to the two of together.

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