Is it normal that my wife doesn't understand that it's her fault i cheated?

I hope she leaves you and takes most of your shit too.

What a childish excuse for your irresponsible and stupid behavior.
If you were so unhappy with your sex life with your wife, chances are you were more at fault than she was. You have some responsibility to keep your sex life with your wife interesting and vital. I'm sure sex to you means being 'serviced' by your woman, which is probably not much of a turn on to her.
Time to grow up and take your fair share of your responsibility in your fucked up marriage.

You suck. Instead of talking to your wife or getting counseling or seeing a sex therapist, you have an affair. Do the words "For better or for worse" mean nothing to you? The sex isn't as spicy as it used to be, and you just use that as an excuse to have an affair? No, your wife is NOT at fault here, and she is not the one who threw the marriage out the window. I hope she divorces your sorry ass.

If you weren't BRAVE enough to talk to your wife and tell her you were bored
...it may be her fault for marrying a worthless coward.

It's not her fault. You're acting like a child. Grow up, stop blaming others for your issues, and take responsibility for your disgusting actions.

You are in control of your own actions. If you were unhappy in your sex-life then you should have talked to your wife about it. The fact that you blame your wife for your adulterous actions is appalling. Committing adultery doesn't just affect you and your wife; it affects your children as well. You are one selfish man.

I suppose it is McDonald's fault that you are fat too. You can't right your wrong by blaming your wife. You took a vow and you broke it. You deserve all the crap that get's dumped on you.

And I'm sorry but how did you think cheating would help your marriage? IT WOULDN'T. It only helped fill your selfish needs.
And being someone who has been cheated on multiple times in the past i can tell you its really hard to come back from that. It will make your relationship worse. The trust will be gone. 10 years of marriage...

You need to stop blaming her and make things right with her if you truly love her. Its hard to trust someone again after that.

And if you have a daughter and her husband cheated on her, how would you react? Would you be on his side or hers? Who is really at fault here. You took the time to make a profile, talk to someone, lie, go out and have sex for over a year but you didn't have the time to talk to your wife.. Or even plan something romantic to give your love that spark again..

Excuses excuses, people like you disgust me with their selfish, entitled victim mentality! Stop playing the victim, you little bitch. Why don't you be a man and take some responsibility for you selfish actions?

I'm not completely heartless so I will pity you.

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Blaming your wife for your actions is really pretty lame, I have to say.

If you didn't inform her of a problem on your end, and apparently she thought things were fine, then it can't possibly be her fault. The only way this could be her fault to any degree is if you expressed your dissatisfaction, gave her a chance (and you also tried to rectify anything you were lacking in), and she refused you a divorce after you both laid it all out.

not enough communication going on. after apologizing for being an arrogant ass see if she will forgive you and maybe go on an adults only trip that is all about you two. MY Late husband and I did role playing with costumes to keep it fresh.

ground yourself from the computer, it seems like it is part of the problem. and get a huge basket of good smelling bath stuff pink and animal print stuff cards candy flowers, stuff animal spa certificate and literally *
beg her to forgive you. When I first met my wife I almost lost her cuz of my drinking problem. Lucky me she forgave me and I was bright enough to know she was WAY better than drinking everyday. good luck

You can't blame someone else for cheating, that's your decision at the end of the day. There are so many things that you can do instead of that, like:
1. Talk to her about how you're feeling. Because chances are she feels the same way but didn't go out and cheat on you..
2. Go to marriage counseling
3. Have a date night at least once a week.
ect ect

How would you feel if she cheated on you instead of you cheating on her? That's not fair. It takes 2 people to make a relationship work and seeing as your making excuses for THE BOTH OF YOU (work alot ect) means that you know its not her fault and you BOTH need to work on your marriage..

You lying sack of doggie doo:)

Man up you piece of shit.
If you're going to cheat, admit it and take responsibility. The cheating I can understand (everyone likes excitement, and not everyone can resist temptation) but blaming your wife is pretty low you cunt!!

Hows it your wifes fault u cheated did she forcefully make u fuck another bitch nope its all on u buddy could have found a way to make your sex life more exciting with your wife befo cheating

You are both wrong for being in a relationship that just does not work. Come clean and break up.

so how are things going with your wife

Sounds like excellent trolling.