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Is it normal that my wife and I share each other with other people? She enjoys watching me have sex and I absolutely adore seeing her get used by other men; just wondering if this is normal... thanks :)
No, not normal, as most people are greedy, but sharing is nice when it is mutual and consensual.
Remember that it is very important that all partners are checked for STDs, and an unwanted pregnancy does not occur.
Also, it goes both ways, so if you select a single female, single males should also be allowed, more or less equitably. Single males often get neglected, so if you are willing to share with singles, allowing only females is unethical.
"Unethical"? So they should include someone they don't want in order to comply with your concept of ethics?
I agree with the rest of your post but this last paragraph is sheer nonsense - they can include or exclude whoever they want in or out of their sex lives, isn't that what it's all about?
And how are single males neglected? Are you writing from experience?
Yes, I am writing from experience.
I have seen many advertisements from 'swingers' who seek single females, but who stipulate that single males are unwelcome. This is unfair to single males, and thus unethical.
Either share only with married or partnered persons, or with singles of either sex on a more or less equal basis, period.
Uhm, that's nuts man. You are saying that people should forgo what they want to be fair to people(single men) they've never met and wouldn't unless they decided to be nice and sleep with people they don't want to. Are you one of these single males?
That is not ethics. Has nothing to do with ethics.
I think what he means by that is that if one of them wants to have a guy in the act, than it should be allowed.
NO, only if BOTH of them want him there, if it's not fully consensual then sorry, he misses out. I understood him to be saying that he felt discriminated against because he wasn't getting what he wanted sexually
I agree, i guess what i trying to say is to do things that make both happy, like maybe if you wanted to have a woman one night, and maybe she wanted a man for another night, maybe they could consider each others request.
The choice in partners and rules related to them should not just appeal to one partners intrest.
See, its all consensual and agreed upon. We believe a heart can love more than one person. We pick who we'd like to have, if we both agree, great! We try for that person. In public or at home we distribute attention evenly. Bisexual girls interested in the both of us are especially welcome, its easier to add someone for the both of us.
When my wife is with her lover I get so turned on just to think of what she is doing to him with her naked body, but I never want to see them as I find him unattractive. but now it seems she has also been with a second guy who I think is quite lush - she is seeing him over the holiday and I've let her know I'd love to watch, she said 'no' but then said perhaps she'll take the camera - what a hot bitch.
I think this is normal
I myself dont do this kind if sex game(I dont like to share)...but I knew a couple who were swingers....and I knew a few people that preferd a more open relationship...
If you enjoy it...I see nothing wrong with this kind of sex game.
So I think its normal to both like this and not like it.