Is it normal that my the perfect girlfriend for me would be a smoker/alcoholic?

I've always wanted to have a girlfriend that I could smoke/drink/get high with. I've always wanted a "sex, drugs and rock'n'roll" relationship, and that's why I want to have a girlfriend that would taste like whiskey and cigarettes when we kiss etc. Is that normal?

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54% Normal
Based on 52 votes (28 yes)
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  • KatieLiz

    I would say yes but, alcoholic? Really?

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  • Jen118584

    I get where you're coming from but these types of relationships often come with drawbacks. Not all the time but often. Besides....alcoholic? Isn't that a little extreme? Being an alcoholic doesn't strike me as being fun or attractive. Besides, not to make a generalization here but good luck finding a girl who's an...alcoholic...and not a total basket case.

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  • It's your preference.. I personally wouldn't want that.

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  • Ya it's just your preference. Although be warned that your perfect gf doesn't sound too faithful.

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  • sickness

    It's fine to want a woman who can swim in your pool, but you've got to know that a crash course is on the way. I'm a drinker, so I tend to attract girls who like to get tipsy often and yeah, the sex is great, but there are weird things like mood swings and bad judgement calls you'll have to contend with, theirs not yours.

    I've found that with drinking ladies the sex is amazing, the nights that become mornings are fun, and the sleep is excellent, but during those times when you need to be serious about some sort of difficult life situation, their first response is to get drunk instead of being your strength... so the issues may never get solved.

    Also, there is the ever constant "freedom" these women experience where you may find yourself feeling jealous because she's too friendly with others and that can seriously fuck with your head.

    My advice? Do it until you can't take it, clean up your act and find a nice girl.

    If that doesn't work and you get bored, shit... go get a drink and while you're at it, buy a pretty girl one too.

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  • DavidS.

    you have a romantic delusional fantasy and dont realize how disappointing the reality would actually be...addicts always ...ALWAYS...choose their addiction over you....and it is so hard to try amd have a life with an addict....their whole day is about their fix....your world becomes real small and it is all about them...no time for you...

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  • Sweetz

    She'll leave you for drugs

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  • UliNalaMansae

    perfect for you is what matters.

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  • seali001

    Go to a truck stop and get you a lot lizard...what the dueces is wrong with you son? Have you been hitting the medicine cabinet? You have set your sights pretty low there now don't you think. You should get you a girl based on her heart not whether she wants to be like Courtney Love....

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  • trytoforgetthis

    Everyone has their own tastes when it comes to being in a relationship, yeh??

    You like what you like, who's anyone to judge that....

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  • thetimeofyourlife

    you like a bit of rough nothing wrong with that. Very common how do you think Pete Doherty gets laid.

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  • hokisgurl

    Have u been listening to the lady gaga song you and I she makes a reference to this u taste like whiskey when u kiss me It sucks reality we people end up with pretty clean cut companions my idea of a great boyfriend. Of what I'm attracted to is dark edgy guys in a band example Andy six craig mabbitt Ronnie radke max green Andrew Compton I'd like to have a boyfriend like that but I get what u mean

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