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I'm a 48 year old mother of two...my son who is 15 is always trying to spy on me whenever im getting changed or in the bath...is this common?
So let him see you naked I would. It's no different than a teen girl wanting to see her daddy naked
I was thinking about just letting him watch me and get it out of his system
Boys and men are visual and love to see nude females. If the female happens to be their mother or sister because they are hot bitches, then guys are going to look. I know I love to see my hot wife and hot daughters nude.
Yes common,give him a show,next time he is watching perform a little scene for him,touch your body let him see how confident you are in your body,or if you don't want him to do it and you know he is there just say come in and watch me up close,chances are he will be afraid and walk away, he us just curious about a woman's body,let him explore yours,I wish I had someone to do that for me when I was young, let him pleasure you and you show him how to make a woman feel good
I have to disagree with this commenter. I think this issue is best left as is. Yes sometimes little boys try to catch glimpses out of curiosity but it should end there. Do not interact with him or show him in any way that you are aware he is there. Anything you do starts to veer off into incest territory. Make sure to lock the doors and cover up so he doesnt have an opportunity to see anything
Very sensible, incest-as-sex education, answer.
Mother, I'm sure that's want you want; on the inside, isn't it?
That is very VERY bad advice and amounts to a mother seducing her son: not good for his future sexual development
All the above comments are wrong. Freud taught us that all boys want to have sex with their mothers; it's called the Oedipus complex. It's important that you don't overreact and scold him. Sit him down and tell him you unsderstand he's discovering his sexuality but you deserve your privacy. Give him some articles on female anatomy and invite him to ask you any questions.
Oh Yeah that old Freud, you have to base 21st century people on what he saw in his closed little circle long long ago.
He also said all girls want to have sex with their fathers, a theory he developed after deciding all his women patients were lying about incest.
The rest of your post is fine, but leave that old misogynistic cocaine addict out of it
What's wrong with being a "misogynistic cocaine addict"? You make it sound like a bad thing.
Wait... What?
I wasn't originally going to get a brain transplant, but then I changed my mind.
A friend of mine tried to annoy me with bird puns, but I soon realized that toucan play at that game.
I'd tell you a chemistry joke but I know I wouldn't get a reaction.
Okay, I think I'm done.
I would spy on my stepmom every chance i got growing up. She raised me from a toddler so she was more like mom to me. About 11 when i started peeping at her. She ended up catching me and let me know that some boys have thoughts about their mom in their teen years. I kept doing it and i guess she had enough of me hiding and looking thru cracked doors, she called me in her room when i was 12 or 13 and walked out of closet completely naked and let me see. SEE EVERYTHING TOO! I was so embarrassed but she reassured it was ok and told me to memorize what i was seeing and not ever spy on her again. Nothing sexual or anything happened, was only time she ever did that. Was a good 10 minutes i got to see her nude. Had rock hard erection sticking out, she knew it, saw it before i could hide it. To this day i believe thats why she let me look so long, she got enjoyment seeing young boy hard for her.
Why not my buddy's aS HOT SHE TOUGHT US HOW TO STAY AWAY FROM YONG GIRLS OR HOW NOT TO GET THEM PREG my buddy ducked her all the time and let us watch
You have to go to the Internet to figure out if this is wrong or not? God bless.
I don't think it's at all normal. Certainly with any other female, but not with one's mom.
It could be a phase, but if it doesn't pass shortly you might want to consider therapy.