Is it normal that my sister is curious?

With our parents constantly working, and our older brother being a piece of shit, I practically raised my little sister. When I was 18, and she was 12, I moved from Unspecified City in Eastern Canada to Unspecified City in America to pursue an education just before her thirteenth birthday. That upset her, and we rarely spoke, though she'd always come to me when she had a problem (puberty, school, sex, and the likes). So, four years go by and I get a call from my mom, asking if my sister could come live with me. I, of course, agreed. I saw her for the first time in four years, and she's like my younger clone, but with dark hair.

So a few months go by, relatively normal. She knows I'm bisexual and I introduced her to my girlfriend. We've basically been attached at the hip for the past 6 months.

Here's where the problem is. My sister has always been afraid of thunderstorms. Everytime there was a storm, or she had a nightmare, she'd always come sleep in my bed. About two weeks ago, there was a really bad storm, and she comes to my door, asking if she can sleep with me, and I say yes. At about 3:30, I wake up to her hands all over me. I think, okay, maybe she's just having an active dream, but I listened to her breathing and knew she was awake. The stormy weather kept on for two more days, and she keeps sleeping with me, and her groping is getting a lot more personal. Touching me breasts, grinding against me, groping my butt. Twice in the last two weeks she's come to my room at night, saying she had a nightmare.

I don't know what to do about this. My knee jerk reaction has always been to give her what she wants and spoil her. And besides this, there hasn't been a single problem with her. She goes to school, gets straight A's, keeps her room clean, always listens to me, and is even looking for a job. Do I just let her have her fun? Should I talk to her about it? Things have been going well, and I don't want to ruin things by putting her on the spot. Is this a curiosity thing, or is she specifically attracted to me? She hasn't shown any attraction to anyone thus far, besides her fascination with Captain America and Thor.

Any advice would be appreciated.

tl;dr I'm 21, my sister is 16. I'm pretty sure she's sexually attracted to me. What do I do?

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  • Tempest-au

    Your post stands out amongst the other 38 "my lesbian sister" posts I have read this week in that you obviously passed basic English, and know what a paragraph is. It is really refreshing to read something that wasn't written by a mostly illiterate 13 year old typing left handed.

    You have elequently expressed the problem, that of a bisexual woman who is conflicted by the obvious sexual attentions of her attractive younger sister. You have skilfully managed to avoid the usual pitfalls of crudity and gross explicitness that plagues incest posts in this forum. You have even managed to turn the usual exploitative nature of the situation around, inferring that you are considering just letting her experiment purely because you like to spoil her and that she is such a "good girl" in every other area.

    The problem however is that the post betrays you. Clearly, it was written by someone with at least average intelligence, and shows a level of maturity well above the normal for this forum. Therefore, it boggles the mind that you would be unaware of the perils of "allowing" a sexual relationship between sisters 21 and 16 years of age.

    Let us, simply for the sake of discussion, presume all that you have said is in fact true.

    You have already expressed that the two of you have been "attached at the hip" for the past 6 months. As a 21 year old woman, you are not so old to have forgotten how feelings are amplified in a teenager. Your sister is still feeling rejected by your parents. Simple common sense would indicate that a sexual relationship between you and your sister at this time will almost certainly result in her placing her entire emotional stock into the relationship with you.

    So, what will happen when your girlfriend comes over next? Your sister will feel betrayed. It will be as though you went to your girlfriends place and found her in the arms of another lover - only more intense. I can't even begin to imagine how your sister will react if you decided to cease "fooling around" with her so that you could actually persue a relationship yourself.

    Let's not ignore the other factor here, not only is she your sister, but at 16 she is under the age of consent. Technically, we are talking Statutory Rape here, as well as Incest. Now, let's say as a result of your eventual rejection of her, she decides to do something stupid like try and kill herself. Then, in the haze of depression in the ER, she truthfully answers the questions of the doctors - and your little "liaison" becomes open knowledge. She gets sent back to your mother, and you have the rest of your life ruined. We won't even go into the psychological damage she will suffer.

    Now, if your little story WERE true, you would know all this already by virtue of your obvious intelligence. This in and of itself would make any SANE person realise that the correct course of action would certainly not be "just let her play".

    QED, you are a troll. Granted, a particularly intelligent one, and for that I applaud you. Well done!

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    • Couman

      How do you know she's under the age of consent when she didn't tell us what state Unspecified City is in?

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      • Tempest-au

        It varies state to state in the USA?

        Most places worldwide the age of content for a homosexual "encounter" is 18.

        Overall, doesn't change my opinion of the post anyway.

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        • Couman

          Yeah, it does, could be 16, 17 or 18. And it's usually the same for straight and gay sex. Of course the incest part may well make it illegal anyway. I just like to correct that misconception because it's so common, even among Americans.

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          • Tempest-au

            Over here (Australia) it's now 16 for heterosexual sex, 18 for homosexual sex in all states. There used to be some wild deviations (pardon the pun) in the age of consent, from 13 for girls in one state, to 18 for guys in another. Thankfully they made it all uniform.

            I still personally feel the difference between Heteosexual consent and homosexual consent is kind of wrong, but from what I've seen it seems somewhat common globally to tie homosexual consent with "adulthood". Of course, it's been a few years since I actually did any real research on that (no real interest as I'm not gay), and with most places becoming more "gay tolerant" these days things may have changed.

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    • nnyant

      thank you for this :)

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      • Tempest-au

        Glad I could help.

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    • Im not sexually attracted to. I know what she's doing is wrong and I'm not condoning it. I just don't want her to think I am upset with her at a time in her life I know is difficult. She's reclusive around others and I'm pretty much all she's got. I just want to know how to approach the conversation. I don't want her to be embarrassed, or to feel like I love her any less. All I want is to help her with something I spent years agonising over.

      I'm not a troll, but even if you think I am, thank you for at least speaking hypothetically.

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      • Tempest-au

        Okay, maybe you are not a troll. There is like a 1 in 300 million chance of winning the lottery, I suppose there is at least the same probability that your story is true.

        Let me ask you a few questions.

        What would you do if you found a crackpipe and some rocks in her room? Would you "let her experiment"?

        What would you do if you came home and found her in her room having sex with 3 much older guys while a 4th video-tapes it? Would you leave her to it so she "wouldn't get embarrassed?"

        How about if you came home and found her in the loungeroom on all fours, with a German Shepherd balls deep and knotted in her quim? Would you just ignore it because the conversation might be a little "awkward"?

        You know there are things in life you CANT help your sister with. You say she is a straight A student, but if she did struggle with a subject, you know you can't just go take the test for her. You would advise her, and help her to learn for herself.

        Same here. You can advise her that bisexuality is normal. You can even advise her that it is normal for a teenager to have sexual fantasies about family members. However, if you act as her "test subject" and allow a sexual relationship between the two of you, then YOU need to be ready to take responsibility for ALL that entails - after all, YOU are the adult here.

        My "suggestion" for what it is worth - next time she starts groping you, gently take her hand and say "Sis, I love you more than the sun and the moon and would do almost anything for you, but it's not normal for sisters to have sex. It makes me feel uncomfortable and I honestly believe that if anything happened, we would regret it later." Then be supportive and answer her questions.

        Help her socialise more. Encourage her to spend more time with friends. Get her involved in a youth group (I'd recommend a non-Christian one, but then I'm not Christian), or even a LGBT support group for teens. I'd suggest some sort of counselling, but I realise that probably isn't an option with the costs involved in America.

        Getting it on with your sister may be the "easiest" option, but in life, the easiest path is usually not the best path - and you do want what is best for your sister don't you?

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  • If your sister is over 13 it is time for her to start having sex. And the best person to have sex with is you. Brother sister sex is very satisfying and it is fun to do it everyday, especially the pure joy of coming inside your sister.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Next time the weather forecasts heavy thunderstorms eat lots and lots of Mexican food especially beans... beans and cheese! Fart up a real storm! Seriously, I think you should farther on her!

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    • Tempest-au

      ROFL - And the winner of the "Most humorous solution award" goes to...

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      • RoseIsabella

        Thanks! ... but seriously, I would have to push her out of the bed, push her sorry ass right to the floor!

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        • Ass_gas

          Absolutely. Sixteen is too old to be acting like you need a teddy bear and a pacifier to suck on.

          Has the OP's sister even been toilet trained yet?

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          • RoseIsabella

            I dunno, it's bad enough that OP's sister sounds weak and clingy, but I'm especially disturbed by the combination of a weak and needy sibling crawling in the bed and then groping and acting sexual. I honestly think the little bitch needs a good SMACK! She's being gross and disgusting in her behavior! When someone acts gross like that I don't give a flying fuck about her Goddamn, stupid feelings. She sounds like a manipulative, little cunt!

            If OP is a real person with a problem and not just a horny, old troll she ought to cut the muthafuckin cord, and never allow that little piece of shit to manipulate her way into bed with her again just, because of a little thunderstorm or a bad dream, it's pathetic!

            I probably haven't done that since I was like four years old.

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            • I thought I had put it in the OP, but I somehow didn't. She's autistic. What I meant by, "there hasn't been a problem," is she hasn't had a fit since she moved in with me. Besides normal things like social reclusion and compulsiveness, she hasn't had any sort of problems with her disability.

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            • Ass_gas

              Amen.

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  • general656

    Yes, it's normal. It's up to you now. If you feel a little bit sexually attracted to your sister as well or any feeling like that I would say "Why not ?". I mean it's not Man/Woman Sex.

    A research shows that all Women are a little bit Lesbians by their nature. Look at men, I can't even say that my friend has a nice haircut (not really but yeah, sometimes it comes to that point). You girls can talk about your butt and your boobs all day like it's normal.

    Also, if you're gonna do something like that ... there's a place called PornHub. Just upload your shit and link it to us.

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  • Jayemen

    Give her exactly what she wants...You. Going to anyway, just a matter of when. My hot older sister and I messed around and played the game until one night, we said "Let's", and ended up having wild, deep, crazy sex that set off our activities to this day.

    Nothing wrong with it, and both parties benefit. It's also a nice comfort zone, as you both know you won't hurt each other and know one another's likes, dislikes, etc.

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  • heckleBucker

    Fuck each other with a double dong. Nice way to warm her up for a threesome with your girlfriend.

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  • KingTermite

    Raging hormones of a teenager. Put a stop to this or your problems will multiply.

    While I personally have no problem with women enjoying lesbian sex or a 21 and 16 year old having a relationship, or even really incest between consenting adults you have a combination of factors at play here that will complicate the hell out of both of your lives, likely for a good many years to come, if not forever.

    I think a good honest sit down is in order. You could help her to understand her feelings and even give her advice about how you navigated your way through the difficulties of teenage sexual discovery, but letting her "have her fun" would be a very poor choice.

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  • Cheet0

    See if you can talk your girlfriend into letting your sister have a go at you/let them trade off..?

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    • Cheet0

      Then it can be over, aND then she can go find a GF of her own..?

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  • Cirno⑨

    Incest is Wincest ヾ(。>﹏<。)ノ゙✧*。

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  • Ratman

    Here's what you should do, pal. Stop boring us pretending to be a female writing this long boring troll.

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  • Beep_Beep

    Most girls suck their first cock at about age 16. Nice of you to be so sensitive, but your little sister needs to learn the rough and tumble real world of adolescent dating and relationships.

    Your sheltering and spoiling is creating an emotional retard. And btw, this situation is mostly your fault. I hope you never have your own children. You will be breast feeding them in kindergarten.

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    • Most girls I know gave head after they got fucked the first time. I know some girls that fucked for a couple of years before they they tried blowjobs.

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    • Dallas8

      Girls first cock in any or all of their 3 holes is alot younger than 16 in today's day and age.
      I know a woman who works as a duty aide in an elementary school cafeteria and she helps the kids at the tables when they are eating and she hears 5 th graders , age 10 and 11 talking about that they are having and giving oral sex , pussy sex and anal sex and she told me that in the mid 1990's , 20 years ago , so can you imagine what it's like now , 20 years later.
      Probably a lot younger than 10 and 11.

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      • Beep_Beep

        You sound desperate. I bet you don't get any.

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  • yanks1998

    Next time you are both in bed together and she puts her hand on your tits , take her hand and put it on your knee and see if she works her way up your thigh and then spread your legs wide apart so she can stick her fingers in your soaking wet juicy bald cunt and then she puts a finger or two all the way up your ass and then she spreads your cum and shit on your nipple and tit and she sucks it off of your tit and you suck your cum and poop off of her fingers.
    Do either of you like cocks in your bald twats , asses , mouths ?

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  • ShahXad

    just tell her "don't sleep with me" if she is curious she will understand it.
    just let me know if it helped or not

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  • klebo

    Do you get turned on when she does this?

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