Is it normal that my potential relationships end this way?

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Is it normal that all my relationships or crushed end with me losing or having no interest? I always ghost on lovers. The first man I got involved with I switched jobs and didn't get his number(ignored him). And I was involved with 3 different guys but two were laid off work and the last one is a politician but I have been job hunting and may move away from this town. Maybe I am depressed?

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  • Meowypowers
    2 years ago

    There is a lot to unpack there... It is normal for crushes to come and go.
    You shouldn't let it affect you too much to the point of depression. Perhaps you could seek out people to involve yourself with outside of work. And don't let your well being or worth be tied to a partner.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      Is reason why crushes or potential lovers ends is because I just want to drink alcohol and do nothing at home. When I'm sober I lie and say I have no time at all for possible lovers.they are not the reason why I feel depressed and it doesn't bother me to ghost on them

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  • Somenormie
    2 years ago

    Lots can happen during potential relationships.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    2 years ago

    Have you ever felt romantically or sexually attracted to anyone?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      Yes

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      • SkullsNRoses
        2 years ago

        So it just burns out after a few weeks?

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  • LornaMae
    2 years ago

    You seem to have misspelled desperate there at the end. Haha

    Now, for real, you seem to have a lot of work to do on yourself before trying to bring anyone into your life... and apparently you care for none of those guys.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      I'm a high functioning alcoholic and it's possible I could be depressed? As soon as I get days off I binge and even self isolation for me I just I binge. I thought about rejecting one of them I'm still involved by telling him I'm an alcoholic and depressed

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      • LornaMae
        2 years ago

        I understand and I still think you shouldn't try to get involved with anyone until you figure yourself out. Even if you do get into a relationship with any of them, how do you think that would work? Sadly, it wouldn't, not in a healthy way anyway...

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