Is it normal that my husband won't let me wear clothes at home?

My husband is the same way and he told me while we were engaged that he would expect this after we married. It's been a year, and I'm still getting used to it. He stays dressed though. He says being naked makes me more submissive to him. I have to be naked for outside chores too (I'm allowed to wear shoes though), but we live in the country with a gated driveway and no close neighbors.

if it doesnt bug you keep doing it. too me every woman at home should be naked

Men are visual and like to see nude women. He must think you are hot. What is the big deal being naked at home? Let him enjoy your body. My wife and daughters are nude most of the time when they are at home. There are several of my friends that have seen them topless or nude. Nudity is beautiful.

My husband is very often naked at home and I often go topless but generally not naked about the house. This is personal choice and I do not think it is normal for your husband to demand this.

My husband made it clear, if we married, he'd want me naked when home. Even if I was home alone, he wanted me nude. I argued to be allowed clothes alone or when people come over. We literally haggled about which family and friends could see me naked when they visited. My family was only to see me clothed. That was my hard line. We got married and as soon as we got home from the honeymoon I promptly 'forgot' our deal. He was pissed. When he seemed too upset, I'd go along with it while he was home. It stopped when we had kids and now that the kids are leaving our nest, I'm actually really looking forward to going nude at home for him again.

I am some what puzzled by the wording of the question, “Is it normal that my husband wont let me wear clothes at home?” The problem I have is with the “wont”, I have no problem with the wearing (in the case not wearing) of clothes at home.

I’m a mother of two a boy and girl ages 12 & 9. Been married to a wonderful man an provider for over 13 years. I too was informed very early on in our relationship that my husband was looking for a naked wife. That when ever practical and possible I was to be naked, no if’s and’s or butt’s about it. Absolutely bare ass butt naked all the time.

It seems to me that most if not all men would want and desire this, however most men do not have the courage to put it out there so clearly and directly. As I was half way around the world at the time, I certainty did not feel in the lease way threaten by this man who I had only just met online through an international dating/marriage site. In his profile he made it abundantly clear what he wanted. Latterly the clothes off of my back all of them.

I was intrigued not so much with the required nudity, but with his open and completely honest approach to what he desired. I imagine a lot of men would hide this hidden desire springing on their partner only after the fact. The fact that he put it out there in bold print in his bio for all to read says a lot about his character and honesty. Women like me were free to pass on to the next profile or?

Like I said I was intrigued so I hit the connect button as he was online at the time. Soon I was looking at this very confident gentleman. The first thing he questioned me on was not the nudity thing, but did I read his profile. This was the first hurdle I had to over come was age. I was much younger that what he was looking for. I asked “what the age thing?” He said well, yeah! “I’m twice your age”, I was at the time 27, the conversation proceeded on from there. Note: when he appeared on screen he was not sitting there butt naked, well to be honest I don’t know that for a fact as I could only see him from the waist up and he had a nice polo shirt on.

To make a long story short with in a month I was in front of a cam (my computer) taking all my clothes off and sitting there talking just as I would have been had I had all my clothes on. You see that his open and complete honesty clearly stated at the very beginning made nudity a non-issue. I was free to make an informed decision. I was not forced into anything.

You see for a month we chatted twice a day, AM and PM, no less that an hour at a time video chatting talking about our lives, our desires our goals etc. He was not looking for a maid, a cook, a Stepford wife, ( I had to look that up), he was not looking for a strife filled life, he had lived that for 25 years. He wanted a partner, to share in the ups and downs of life, not a combatant, not a slave. He was opening up his world, and all the security that he could offer with only one request in return. I was to be his naked wife.

I finally got the courage to ask him how come he wasn’t naked. And he replied who says I’m not? To which I said I have eyes and I can see, you have a shirt on, to which he said ok, and pushed his chair back stood up and adjusted the cam a bit to show me that he was indeed naked from the waist down. Now it made sense, up to that point when ever he stood to go get a drink, get something to eat, leave the room etc, he would turn the cam off. He had been naked all the time from the waist down. And out of respect for me he kept a shirt on, hiding his nudity from me. Not out of shame ore anything like that but allowing me time to get to know the man.

The next day soon after were on line chatting, Him now completely naked hiding nothing, I stood up and took all my clothes off sitting back down to continue on with our discussion of the day. This was a daily occurrence, and in 6 months He came to my country for a visit, and 9 months latter I was on a plane flying back to the US on a K1 visa and marriage.

Thirteen years and two children latter I am still his naked wife, mother, and partner.

My point is it’s not that my husband “wont” allow me to wear any clothes. It’s a choice that I made one day 13 years ago and a choice I make every day. To follow my husbands lead in this naked life style. No we do not consider ourselves nudist we do not share our nudity with outsiders, belong to any nudist organizations, or share our nudity outside of our immediate family.

Domestic nudity seems more common than some might imagine. In elementary and high school I had 2 classmates whose families didn't wear clothes. In college I asked around and met about 12 guys from such families. Nothing at all wrong with it. My introduction was at a friend's home at a sleep over.
Older brother told me everyone was comfortable nude. I was nvited to remain clothed, wear just my skivvies or join the crowd. (They also offered to remain dressed if that's what I wished. =I was 9, had never seen a naked female and I was about to see 2 of them! I don't recall having an erection that night, BTW.)
Started out in Fruit of the Looms. 10 minutes later I was nude and relaxed. Since, my wife and I raised our 2 (now adult) children in our nude home. Our house happens to be in the center of 4 acres of woodlands. No one sees our front door, much less us. Gardening w/o tan lines is JUST FINE! UPS, Fedex and Amazon drivers pay us no attention. =Not THAT unusual, apparently...

My wife wants ME to be nude all the time!! If it's cold in the morning she will let me wear a shirt and some slippers, but the shirt cant extend below my waist. She wants my butt bare so she can see it and my cock and balls dangling out where she can see them and play with them any time she wants.

My wife is ALWAYS nude at home, and out in the yard. She would be annoyed if I started telling her to put clothes on, as she just loves being naked. Our 2 teenage sons are okay with it, too.

if you don't mind, then it's probably fine but, if he makes you do it even on days when you don't want to, that's abusive.

And i would like to add if you are going to be nude try to get him to also strip naked at home.Its a win win situation and more sexy times for both of you love birds.