Is it normal that my husband watches porn and ignores me during foreplay?
My husband and I are in our early 40s and we have always had an intense sex life. Lately, he has been hurting my feelings and I don't know if I am overreacting or if he is being insensitive. We can be naked and fooling around, but after 10 minutes or so, he starts to completely ignore me. He goes on his laptop and finds some excuse like, "Oh, there's this porn video I want to show you but I can't remember where I saw it" and he will stay on the computer for HOURS. Of course, he never finds the mysterious video. I think it's a cop out. I can be naked right next to him and he doesn't expect me to get angry? I can't talk to him about it because every time I bring it up, he says, "Oh, here we go," like I am a broken record and I won't stop bitching. Is it normal for him to "take a break" (as he calls it) in the middle of having sex with me to watch hours of porn on the computer? I feel like I'm acting like a child when I pout and tell him to pay attention to me, because I shouldn't have to ask. Should I act like it's no big deal or should I insist that he stop acting this way?