Is it normal that my husband takes yoga and pilate classes for sexual fantasy?

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My husband went to a "piyo" class last night (pilates and yoga infusion). He was the only male.
He came home so turned on from watching all the girls dance, he wanted to have sex immediately. It was like he went to a strip club.
Well, I felt used. He was definately using his fantasies for the sex. Then he went soft half way through. I guess my body couldn't carry out the fantasy. Should I tell him I won't put up with it? Or should I be happy that the class is stimulating his sexual desires?

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago

    All that shit depends on the person. And as you said, you felt used. So yeah, put an end to it. Don't let anyone tell you what you should be feeling. "It's not cheating" etc... that's all just people thinking they're great because it doesn't bother them. As a fellow human being, I'd feel the same way you do. If it makes you uncomfortable, say no to him.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    10 years ago

    What's wrong with getting aroused by someone else? Be it at a strip club or a yoga center?

    It's not cheating to get aroused by someone else or to have a fantasy after all.

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  • _Molotov_Cocktail_
    10 years ago

    You should stuff half a dozen molotov cocktails down his pilates tights. He won't know what hit him.

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  • Anime7
    10 years ago

    It's your body if you don't want to put up with it then don't. However, if you want your sex life to be more stimulated, then perhaps, you could try going to one of those classes with him. But again though it is your body and if you don't want to put up with it you don't have to.

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