Is it normal that my husband spends more time with his friends and car?

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I have been married for only a year, And my husband hardly spends anytime with me. He is usually out with his friends playing pool/working on his car. He comes home around 10 or 11 at night i dont mind him spending time with his friends. Its just that when i ask him if i can go with him he says no. He doesnt allow me to have friends or go out, because he assumes that im cheating on him. But im never out of the house, I spend all day at my house with my 6 month old. When i tell him im going to go out with my cousins he says no, And if i do i have to take one of his brothers so he can keep an eye on me, Hes acused me of sleeping with my own cousin. IIN?

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  • dirtybirdy
    10 years ago | pl

    I don't even know where to start. What the hell did you marry him for?? Good grief I just can't even

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    • Anime7
      10 years ago

      Agreed. OP he doesn't sound like a suitable father or husband.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    10 years ago

    Run, seriously, run.

    This is a textbook example of how abusers start out - by first physically and emotionally isolating their partners.

    I am not saying he is going to abuse you but he is trying to isolate you and by no means should a spouse ever attempt to do this. This is abusive behavior that he is exhibiting.

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  • tripw7
    9 years ago

    Just seeing this now and it is over a year since you wrote. Hopefully you have left with your little one.

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  • golden_showers
    9 years ago

    tell him if he lets you go, you'll give him road head on the way. he might change his mind.

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    It makes me sad that you have to ask if this is normal behaviour:/ It isnt! Take your kid and get the hell out!

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  • imacomputer
    10 years ago

    yes it's normal...but no it's not right at all!

    he is insecure and controlling.

    he has no right to prevent your happiness.

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  • q1w2e3
    10 years ago

    Talk to him. If he doesn't listen bring it up to his parents.

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  • Joe24
    10 years ago

    I think yes, because the reason isn't related to the marriage, it's because he finds more fun with his friends, you can "interact" in his social circle to solve this.

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