Is it normal that my husband is jealous of my brother?

My brother and I have always been close since we met at 17 (half siblings by different mothers). My brother and I never argue ( my husband and I argue a lot), and we hug a lot. He gets mad when I say something good about my brother or when i say I miss him. Should I tell my hubby that he needs to grow up? Is it weird that he acts this way?

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  • Biptetk

    Your husband sounds insecure with your relationship with your brother. Do you say anything good about your husband? It could be that he wants a relationship with you like you have with your brother. He sees you guys are close and wants that too.

    Marriage is not 50/50 it's 100/100. Both parties have to put in 100 percent.

    If he's jealous give him reasons not to be. Be honest here, is he really being a jerk about it? If so than he needs to be more respectful.

    Instead of arguing all the time you two should try to talk calmly and figure out the issues. It also requires both you and your husband to be humble. All this self-pleasing on both parties is hurting your marriage.

    Spend more time together. Time spent together promotes communication. Experience shows that good communication decreases the risk of loneliness, feelings of being left out, or jealousy.

    But in order for this to work somebody is going to have to make the first move and work towards a solution.

    I wish you both the best of luck and hope all things work out.

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    • I day good things about my husband all the time. If I say anything at all positive about bro, he gets defensive. My brother obviously intimidates him for a lot of reasons. Brother is more athletic, larger and more successful financially than my husband, even though he is 15 years younger. Brother is also our landlord and reduced the rent down to where we could afford it. My husband would never admit to this tho.

      If you add these things to the fact that my brother and I get along so well, my husband freaks out when we hug or he sits next to me on the couch or wherever. Its really childish.

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  • Ummitsstillme

    Your hub shouldn't worry about it.

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  • cipro

    Its normal that he is jealous. But are you sure you don't wanna have sex with ur half brother?

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    • No, I don't, and please get out of here with that.

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  • 122656

    Divorce your husband and tell him to grow a set of nuts , and tell him to shove his cock up his shit can sideways.
    It would be in your best interest , because jealous men do crazy things.
    You better change your wishes , and take it to the next level.
    You can really make your husband jealous , by getting in front of your brother and kiss him and unzip his pants and take his cock out of his pants and start sucking his cock , and then get naked and bend over and let him fuck your cunt and your asshole , and then take his cock in your mouth and suck all of your cum , piss , shit , all off of his cock and ball bag.

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    • A bit farther than I wish to take it

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