Is it normal that my husband doesn't appreciate me.

Im a stay at home wife. Im feeling my husband doesn't appreciate me anymore. He has cheated on me with large fat women and my best friend. He flirts with my male friends and makes sexual comments at them. I do everything in my power to please him. I have even dyed my hair different colors because it made him happy. He lies to me about paying the bills and we have ended up without electric and water several times. He doesn't shower anymore. He also wears the same dirty clothes over and over again. He will not let me wash his clothes anymore. He also is starting to abuse over the counter medication. I feel lost and trapped. I just feel like dying when im in my home. Any advice that can help me with this is appreciated.

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Comments ( 5 )
  • ThatUglyDoll

    You have no idea how common this is. Hence making it "normal"

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  • Crudhouse

    Face your fears. You will need to get a job and move out, otherwise there's only a slow demise for you as well as your guy. Very tough decision, but life is full of opportunities as long as you face your fears

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  • Faceless

    If divorce isnt an option theres always murder. Thats how I see marriage anyways.

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    • TerryVie

      yep, and in the us, you get away with "i was cleaning my gun when a shot went off".
      even if not, better a few years of prison than a life of slowly dying. Just don't download a file.

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  • Saycheese

    This is not normal.

    Why stay with him if he doesn't appreciate you?

    The best advice I can give you is, divorce him. He doesn't deserve you one bit!

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