Is it normal that my girlfriend wants to use

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Hi, so I'm a girl and my girlfriend wants to try new sexual experiences. It's all very interesting but one scares me, it involves breaking down the swifter dust mop thing she uses to clean the floors in her dorm, and use the handle to anally engage in sex with me... I've done many strange sexual acts since I lost my virginity at the age of 18 (I'm 23.) I'm always up for pleasing my girl and trying even the most outrageous acts, but this just doesn't seem normal and plus wouldn't it hurt, a lot? Should I break up with her? I'm lost...

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  • reminiscent
    9 years ago

    Well I would sit down and talk to her and let her know that your not comfertable with this.
    it seemed unsanitary to me....I would think it would hurt but I dont do anal things...maybe someone else can advise you on this part.

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    • pastor_of_muppets
      9 years ago

      Emphasis on 'sit down' because then that alien chick can't probe him

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      • Ellenna
        9 years ago

        Keep up, OP says she's a girl too

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  • Ellenna
    9 years ago

    OK if you wanted her to but if you don't, then don't! Simple as that and if she keeps pressuring you she's not respecting your wishes. OK she talks about it but doing it when you don't want her to is an absolute no no.

    There are lots of safe sex toys for anal play and don't forget the lube - never forget the lube!

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  • Gspyder
    9 years ago

    Don't do that. The skin of the anus is pretty delicate so if you want to play that way, there's nothing wrong with it but go by a sex toy.

    You should not break up with her just because she is comfortable enough to share fantasies with you, you can just say no. Unless you two are just on completely different levels sexually.

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  • VirgilManly
    9 years ago

    Does your ass need a good dusting?

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  • (s)aint
    9 years ago

    Why break up because of something like this? All of my sexual partners have told me no at least 3-4 times because I'm the one with the wicked ideas!
    Just tell her that she should buy a toy and use that on you instead.

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  • icant_
    9 years ago

    Don't break up with her. Why not play some pokemon instead of having sex!?

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    I'm curious. Lol. How exactly did she propose this to you? What were the specific circumstances? And don't spare the dirty words like 'moist' and 'throbbing' where necessary.

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  • DannyKanes
    9 years ago

    Eh, yolo

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