Is it normal that my girlfriend wants to sleep over at her guy friends house

She's fucking them bro. Drop the skank.

Make some lady friends , start hanging out with them on the weekends with them then have sleep overs with them and if she comments on it tell her shes being clingy and possessive. You might as well have fun... Just dont sleep with any of your female friend cause your gf may not be sneaking around on you.

It would only be normal if those guy friends are gay... =_= otherwise it's creepy, especially if she already has a boyfriend

My g/f would never spend the night at another guys house unless I was there. She is just trying to make you feel guilty. Its not recommended but you can go to a girls house and sleep over. Make sure you take a few pics of you and this other girl having fun. Then when she comes flipping on your ass tell her this is how you feel about it when she does it. If she loves you then she will understand this whole thing. If she doesnt then she wont care.

I know a girl at uni that has mostly male friends and she doesn't shag any of them even though they sleep over and that.

It may be cause for concern, but not neccessarily. When I was in high school, I used to sleep over a guy friends house. I was single and had a crush on him. He had a girl friend. We never did anything. I respected the fact that he had a girlfriend, and he loved her. She trusted that we weren't doing anything. It was all good.

I don't blame you for being cautious. The fact that she replies to your accusations with insults make her sound guilty of something. I suggest talking to her about her behavior and how you feel about it. If she refuses to hear you out, well, personally, I would think she has been up to something.

What upsets you more?

That she's going out with other friends?
Or that she's crashing there when she's had a lot to drink.

Do you expect her to go home alone, drunk? Driving perhaps? Just so that your jealousy isn't triggered?

She's not an object they can just shove in a pocket and steal after all. They CANNOT steal her away from you... unless she's willing.

Not only does she make you feel bad by making you jelous, she insults you for it as well. She is a bad person whether she knows it or not. In addition, chances are relevant that she is cheating as well. Her behaviour is unacceptable.

She doesn't respect you, so why should you respect her? Use her for sex until you find a hotter girl to trade her away with.

That bitch is cheating on you.

I'd say "slut alert" as well. of course there could be a honetsly pure girl that would never get wasted and suck some random guy. But then.. I believe i'll shoot and mount on my wall a rainbow-shitting unicorn before i find a girl like that.

watch out, buddy.

Tottally normal being jealous. Slut alert.

you have every right to be jealous and kind of mad, especially if you don't trust one of the guys. thats weird though, i would never sleep at a guy friends house because i have a boyfriend and yeah he wouldn't be happy with it either its just unnecessary in my opinion

Other than that I would beat that bitch for being so disrespectful if she's likes to sleep over it should be at your place only

Well its okay if the Guy or guys don't have a dick or dicks

I DNT BLAME U FOR BEIN JEALOUS OR NT FULLY TRUSTING HER ITS PERFECTLY NORMAL FOR U TO FEEL THAT WAY , I WOULD TOTALLY FEEL THE SAME IF MY FIANCE WANTED TO SPEND THE NIGHT AT OTHER GIRL FRIENDS HOUSE I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM SOMETIMES ON NT FULLY TRUSTING MY PARTNER

i totally agree wid u

I think it's fishy. Even if it is innocent you have told her that it makes you uncomfortable. She disregards your feelings and does it anyway. That right there should tell you a lot about your relationship. She doesn't care about your feelings.

you need to break up with her a s a p . Thats definitely NOT okay my friend . If you like sharing your girlfriends time attention and life as well as her vagina go ahead otherwise find a more loyal and stand by you type of woman.I would have given you that advice at "goes out late with guys " before i even read the sleep over segment

Well, most people that have at least some idea of how relationships work, already know this is inappropriate and will cause problems. Most people would not tolerate their boyfriend/girlfriend spending the night alone with a person of the opposite sex. Especially if they don't trust said person. That's just asking for trouble.

You would have to be a complete idiot to not be a little bit suspicious. Obviously, it's important to trust your mate, everyone knows that. However, to expect you to fully trust her in a situation like you describe, is down right unreasonable.

Personally, I'd start planning an exit strategy.

It could be normal. I used to sleep over my guy friends houses all the time but not when I was in relationship. I wouldn't sleep over a guy's house if I was in a relationship. I think it's a bit disrespectful of her. On the bright side; she's being honest with you telling you she's doing this, other girls would've lied. Talk to her about how you feel about this, she has to respect your feelings too.

At the very least it is being disrespectful to you that she isnt considering how you are feeling about the whole situation at the worst she is rampantly cheating on you.

Either scenario doesnt seem appealing to me at all. It has nothing to do with her being an object that you own or anyone owns, its respect for the relationship she enjoys with you that should cause her a moment of pause in doing something like this.

Its a very rare scenario, really almost impossible for heterosexual males and females to be just "friends" there has to be enormous amounts of sexual tension going on.

How ahve you spoken to her before, have you both been calm and getting on well before chatting.

To be honest if she is yoru girlfriend then you must trust her, just because she has male friends does not mean she is fucking them.

Have you offered to go and sleep over with her?

Have you seen her with her male friends, if so how are they togther?

you need to talk to her, also do you have female friends and if so have you stayed at theres, if you did how did your girlfriend react

Totally agree with anime3