Is it normal that my girlfriend sleeps over at her friends (male) for a week?

So my girlfriend wants to sleep over at her (boy)friends house in a different city for a week. She say's she wants to get away for a week and clear her mind up. She claims that the guy she is sleeping over at is "like her brother" and that she "would never do anything with him".

Is this normal....Am I normal to be pissed off by this?

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29% Normal
Based on 108 votes (31 yes)
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Comments ( 22 )
  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    REDDD FLAAGGG!!!!!

    Don't listen to these pussies that it's ok and that you should let her clear her head. FUCK THAT. Get away and clear her mind? WHAT THE FUCK. Dump this bitch, she's undecided about you, you deserve better than that bullshit. I guarantee that she will fuck this guy, especially as they're staying together and she's 'clearing her mind'. 100% she will come back and dump you. 'Clearing my mind' is women's code for I'm pretty sure I'm going to dump you.

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    • prasatko

      100% agreed!

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    • PapzBSlim

      Every word you stated is correct. He should just tell her it is over.

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  • ZooManOtroy

    No, unacceptable.

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  • Alex_Gee

    Seriousley dude - take it from a girl who has played away a lot - she isn't going there to cry on his shoulder and watch the Notebook on repeat - she's going to get fucked......a lot! You've got every right to be suspicious, but you're a fool if you don't ditch her before it happens! Don't forget, she might come back after living the dream for a week and dump u so don't get played! Ax

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  • Justsomejerk

    That would make me uncomfortable.

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  • SharP

    I would give her the benefit of the doubt for now. I have dated girls that really were just friends with guys and they spent time with those guy friends away from me and I also have female friends with which I am the guy friend they spend time with and I never touched any of them.

    On top of that, if a girl is cheating on you, she probably doesn't want you to know that she is spending that time with another man, so if you got the information directly from her then I wouldn't worry unless the relationship has been deteriorating or starts to deteriorate.

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  • suishokiba

    I'm a girl. I can have a sleepover at a guy's house without being intimate in anyway. I have had close male friends without being intimate with them.
    But. it really does sound suspicious and you have every right to be upset about the situation. The question is... do you trust her?
    Because if you accuse her of cheating, when she has not, you will be in a bad position. I advise you to tell her that you love and trust her, but feel uncomfortable with her staying at his house.
    and if she cares about you, she will respect that and not do it anymore.

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    • PapzBSlim

      She is going to a male friends' house to clear her mind? She just basically told him in code that she is undecided and will try things with that guy to see who she should be with. Yea you can sleep at a guys' house without being intimate but you probably weren't going there to "clear your mind."

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  • jamesmitchell29486

    I don't care how much "like a brother" he is he's gonna try to fuck her don't let her go you gotta either lock it down or share it with everybody o.k.

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  • Imsupernormal

    Dump that bitch! She is totally cheating on you dude.

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  • He's definitely gonna get intimate with her

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  • fartonmyface

    Sounds retarded. You don't need that bullshit in your life. Excuse my language.

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  • Imposturously_yours

    awkward..

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  • CheyChey

    It's so normal a girl can be friends with a guy without wanting to bend over.

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  • Iamjustbeingme

    R u asking is it normal she does this or is it normal your pissed, i cant vote cause u asked many questions. But i have an answer for both. No its not okay she does this and hell yeah u have a right to be pissed. Id leave my spouse if they did it and knew i didnt like it.

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  • Avant-Garde

    No... I think she's cheating on you.

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  • Moonbow

    Yes, you have a reason to be pissed and if you're smart, you'll dump her ass before she dumps yours!

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  • prasatko

    It is normal that you are pissed off by this.
    Her behaviour is highly suspicious...(not normal from my perspective).

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  • wistfulmaiden

    I accidentally posted "not normal" meaning its not normal for her to do this Yes its normal for you to be upset. It could be true but it sounds more like a big old lie.

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  • Glddraco

    Say it's okay if she sleeps with him as long as you video it.

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  • ccjigsaw

    I would feel uncomfortable... I have friends I would never do anything with, but I would still understand if my bf didn't want me to stay at their house for a week..

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