Is it normal that my girlfriend isn't giving me any...love

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We are both women. We have been going out for ten years (not consistently, as we would have break ups for a few months here and there). I would make love to her.. but she's never given any sign to reciprocate the feeling. I have heavily hinted numerous times of how much I wish to do it. I mean, I never had orgasms from her.. I have to masturbate alone to satisfy myself.

Maybe I'm in the wrong site asking the wrong question (not to mention, extremely embarrassed), but I am severely depressed and I simply want to know if I'm doing it wrong. Are we still too young? 23 years of age? Must I let it be? I feel like she's never loved me completely..

I will talk to her soon about this. My decision is almost final.. I just had to let this off of my chest.

P.S
Thank you for reading my post

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    So you're going to talk to her "soon"? You haven't mentioned it before in TEN YEARS?

    If she hasn't picked up on your "heavy hints" in that time and you've never asked outright for what you need in the same length of time, this relationship has been doomed for a long time. Please, don't get into another one until you've learned how to be more honest about your feelings and to stay away from people who don't do the same.

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  • Rabidrabies
    7 years ago

    If you want to try and make it work, tell her what worries you have clearly and if that doesn't work..you need to let her go if she's making you feel "severely depressed", she's not healthy for you.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Dump her.

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  • Olddelusionalsailor
    7 years ago

    Maybe she's getting some sausage on the side.

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