Is it normal that my girlfriend forbids me to go out at night without her?

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I am 25 years old, my girlfriend is 24. We are in a committed relationship almost two years. Once/twice a week, sometimes ones every two weeks, mainly on weekends, I want to go out in a night club with my friends (mainly single male friends or pairs, no single ladies). I always invite my girlfriend with me. When she can come, it is ok. But when she can not come with me, she wants to sleep or something, she is very angry at me that I go alone. She wants me to never go out without her at night, or at least very rare (once every month / two months). I have never cheated her before, I love her and I let her go out alone (she does this very rarely, but never calls me to go with her, she always wants to go alone when she is with her friends).

Is this normal for her to forbids me to go out without her when she can not come ( I invite her always )?

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Based on 68 votes (25 yes)
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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    10 years ago

    No that's pretty controlling, you offer her the option. You need a level of trust in a relationship.
    Then again I am far from an expert on relationships

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    Just the word "forbid" makes me want to do the forbidden thing that much more. You may love this girl, but she obviously doesn't trust or respect you. A real relationship is built on trust and respect, not on allowing and forbidding.
    Perhaps it's time to move on, or get yourself a collar and a leash.

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  • Fall_leaves
    10 years ago

    The asshole I dated never wanted to go out, the furthest we ever got was from his bedroom to the couch.

    It's not normal when you're so willing to ask her if she wants to go. Just talk to her, you know you're girlfriend better than anyone on here.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    10 years ago

    If she doesn't trust you, dump her. This is obviously not normal.

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  • TwoThumbs
    10 years ago

    If you're asking her if she wants to go and she's declining...that's her deal. Forbidding you to go is based on her insecurity. You've given her no reason to think you're a cheater. At your age...you're still young. Going out with your friends is a bit of stress relief. You need to sit her down. Explain these things to her and explain to her she has nothing to worry about...you just don't want to sit home alone.

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  • theseeker
    10 years ago

    Personally, I always thought night clubs were a waste of time and money unless your goal is to chase some tail. Regardless, it's not normal that there's obviously a lack of trust on her side in the relationship. I would confront her about it. There has to be a reason why she feels that way, and she will have to give you a reason if what you say is true because she can't deny that it is unfair.

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  • Geneva5
    10 years ago

    Go get sum bitches -

    Your GF is a boring dirt pants -

    And gives hopeless blowjobs - I know from experience !

    Live it up -

    Tap that ass and live large !!!

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